I am married woman, I suddenly start falling in love with a boy in my Class.
He too is in love too, I cant help thinking about him, morning, day and night. He is driving me crazy, should I leave the school?
2006-07-12 09:08:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DO you really love him? Or are you just in love with the idea of being with somebody that isn't your husband? Think about it. Maybe you need some time alone just you and your friends. Marinate in what makes you smile.
2006-07-12 09:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How could you let yourself fall in love with someone else? What are you lacking in your current relationship? What do you love about your husband? Are you going to risk all that you've built and the loyalty of your husband on some classmate that you are attracted to? You need to do something to take yourself out of that situation, and you also need to assess why you are feeling that way towards this guy. Is it because you aren't getting your needs met at home or is it because you are attracted to someone else. If you really have a question as to what you should do, ask yourself what you'd want your husband to do if he was in that situation. Chances are you've already crossed the boundary. Think about what makes a successful relationship, is it because of the fantasy or due to the loyalty of an individual. The fantasy wears off. What will you have then? If you leave your hubby for this guy, you think this guy is going to trust that you wouldn't do the same thing to him? You need to learn what the word LOYALTY means. Its normal to be attracted to other people, but it doesn't mean you act on it and destroy a committed friendship.
2006-07-12 16:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even married people develop crushes. If you love your husband and want to stay married you have to learn that crushes aren't love. When you have a crush you have to realize it and not let it become the focus of your life. If it gets too intense then you simply must stop all contact with this person. A good rule to always follow is never do or say anything to someone that you wouldn't do if your spouse were there with you. If this boy loves you then he will respect your choice to honor your marriage vows and stop having contact with him. If he can't respect your choice then the truth is he doesn't really love you.
2006-07-12 16:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the teacher??? Either way, its wrong, you're married. If leaving the school is what you feel you should do, then do it, but chances are you'll find someone else to think about all the time. Focus on your husband. Remember, the grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side.
2006-07-12 16:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't leave the school all i can tell you is follow your heart what does your heart tell you to do? Are you sure this is love? Do you love your husband? Think about everyone in this situation. if yo have kids do so move schools because your kids won't deserve this maybe this is just a sexual attraction? but whatver you do FOLLOW YOUR HEART WOMAN!!!!!!!!!! I wish you the best make sure you decide for the one which you truly love!
2006-07-12 16:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married woman. You have taken a vow to love, honor, cherish until death do you part. Falling in love with someone wasn't in the cards. You need to go to another school. He could be there for a moment.
2006-07-12 16:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the atmosphere that exist has allowed you to full fill this fantasy of yours...just as any affair it seems to have been lead by the circumstances one puts themselves in...you need a wake up call to make you realize how wrong this is...discuss this with a best friend...imagine your husband knowing how your feeling and the devastation you would feel if he was feeling the same way you are...stay true to your husband.
2006-07-12 16:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u even thinking about your husband and what may happen if u do leave him or hurt him. Do u even have fillings for your husband. U really need 2 read the 10 commandments.
2006-07-12 16:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by tyty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no finish your school, and what is this dreaming about a nother boy/ You married my Dear ! You think the grass is greener over there??? Wrong in the end it all is the same. So finish your school and make your guy happy, don't dream what could be. Think about it, this is why marriage's don't last anymore. Try to be smart
2006-07-12 16:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by diamantenkitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you value your wedding vows? Does commentment mean anything to you? If you do decide to go after the guy in your class, at least have enough respect for your husband to get divorced first.
2006-07-12 16:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋