2006-07-12 09:02:24 · 33 answers · asked by eight 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, its not okay. I understand why you would want to do it though... If you could get pregnant by him while you are broken up I assume the two of you are still having sex. You have to ask yourself though, if your ex is still sleeping with you it means one of two things:
1. He is an asshole and a user. He is not the man you would want to marry, nevermind father your child. He is just messing around with you until the next best thing comes along, and it won't matter whether you are pregnant or not- he won't be faithful and loving.
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2. He may have broken it off with you, but he's still seeing you because he really loves you. In all reality he doesn't want to be with anyone else and he is just feeling torn between loving you and whatever reason he broke up with you. Chances are that he will come around and get back with you if you play your cards right. In this instance there is no reason for you to go to such desperate measures of pregnancy, not to mention it will cause so much chaos and will damage your already fragile relationship.
I think you know in your heart whether your ex is like 1 or 2. Either way, gettting pregnant now behind his back is not a good idea...there are other ways to get him back...if he's even worth it.
Good luck!
2006-07-12 09:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by neverneverland 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 02:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by Susie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Thats just way wrong Why would you want to do that anyways? He is an ex for a reason right.I mean HELLO a baby will not bring the 2 of you back together. If he doesn't want to be with you then why would you want to have his baby anyway? Do you think a baby will make him love you more?It won't.You really need to think this over.By the way if he is your ex how is it that you can get pregnant by him? Is he still hanging around? Anyways that is wrong.That is called suckering him.How would he feel if he knew that you was planning this?
2006-07-12 09:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you realize the question you are asking? You want to bring a little innocent baby into the world just to win your ex-boyfriend back..I don't know how old you are, but please, wait until you've matured a little more and realize what the real reasons are for wanting to have children. Because having a baby to win an ex-boyfriend back certainly isn't one of them. I don't know if anyone can get through to you about this, but I sure hope someone does.
2006-07-12 09:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by 2179 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you sound like an truly mature and to blame individual and also you need to be happy with your self for a way you're dealing with issues. the perfect ingredient to do may be to inform the daddy and your mum and dad asap - that way you'll provide up stressing and may start up making plans for the toddlers arrival! (The time will fly - believe me!) the coolest ingredient is you've a properly paid interest and look to nevertheless get including your ex. Many toddlers are presented into this international lower than a lot worse circumstances - there is no longer some thing incorrect with being a unmarried mom. i understand those who grew up with only one figure and performance had a good formative years. best of success hun, let me understand if u pick any suggestion or purely pick to talk xx
2016-12-01 03:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else. It is much better to move on and find a boyfriend that wants to be with you.
I had the opposite situation where I accidentally became pregnant after discontinuing to see someone I was dating. I went back for a few weeks and then left permanently. He was an angry person to begin with and after I left him, he chose to direct all of his anger toward me. Just realize that once you share a child, that other person has the right to force you into court on a monthly basis if he wants to.
In your situation, the boyfriend may not come back. And if he doesn't, it may be more difficult finding a guy when you have a child. If he does, he is not going to be happy about the situation. Do you really want to be with someone who is unhappy and doesn't want to be with you? If he came back, I'll bet that he'd be more likely to leave you or cheat on you in the future.
Move on. You'll probably find someone better.
2006-07-12 09:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO IT IS NOT OK!!! Contrary to what you see on TV, getting pregnant is no way to win a man at any age. All you're doing is being selfish. A pregnancy involves another person - the baby!!! Once you have that baby, you don't come first anymore. Please don't bring a child into the world to get a man. It's stupid, immatureand inhumane. Find another boyfriend and keep your legs closed (or take the pill).
2006-07-12 09:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is wrong and you will put that child's life and happiness in jeopardy. There is no guarantee that your ex will come back even if you are pregnant. And there is no guarantee that he will not leave you again in the future. Then what will you do? Having a child should be done for the right reasons, and this is definitely not a right reason. Just move on with your life.
2006-07-12 09:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO! thaat is wrong and selfish! your talking about a human life, not a pawn in a game.
Besides, getting pregnant doesn't mean your boyfriend will want you, he may move to the other end of the planet!
2006-07-12 09:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by ceffedupwithwhiners 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey not the right thing to do. Do you want to have serious problems with him? i don't think you should do that. Look i am sure that there is someone out there for you that really will love you allot and wont let you go. So don't do this make right decisions and don't do something you can regret for the rest of your life.
2006-07-12 09:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by SunFlower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋