some 1 who really cares about me not just 2 b with me because of my back side "if u no what i mean"?
2006-07-12 08:37:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
you gotta a phat a*ss? how you doin!?
2006-07-12 08:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear 'whoever you are',
The answer to your question is yes, if ...
If you are a teenager, then you probably won't find such a guy yet, because boys are boys, not men. They don't think much about anything except girl's 'backsides' (you do know what I mean).
The difference between a boy and a man (at least where a girl is concerned) is growing beyond just thinking about being physical with a girl. This is called maturity, and unfortunately, even boys in their 20's and 30's are very immature these days.
If you're not a teenager, forgive me for the above, but you weren't specific enough in your question.
In any case, here's how to find a mature boyfriend.
Make a list of the qualities you want in a guy. Then ask yourself what qualities this guy would want in a girl. Make a second list of those girl qualities.
Keep both lists and look at them every day.
List one, the boy qualities, is what you look for and hold out for. Don't settle for less, or you will be dissappointed.
List two, the girl qualties, is your 'to do' list. Develop all of those good qualities. If you feel you lack any of them, don't worry, you can achieve them if you put your mind to it. If you want to have the guy of your dreams, you have to become the girl of his dreams.
Of course, every guy wants an attractive girlfirend, but attractive is a relative term. What one guy thinks is beautiful, another guy thinks is ugly. You are who you are, but don't neglect maximizing yourself.
Most girls are selfish, and only think about what they want. Think about what the guy will want. This step alone will put you ahead of most girls.
Remember, you only need one. You can have what you want if you refuse to compromise your principles, and never give in.
SUCCESS!
2006-07-12 15:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that the best way to find a significant other is by not looking for them. Go about your everyday life and someone might pop out of the woodwork. But if you need a boost, there is always the personals section.
As for the other part of your question, get to talking to somebody on the phone before meeting them. If you can keep up a conversation with them for hours on end, you have found the right one.
2006-07-12 15:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by The Bat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually, but first stop identifying yourself by your backside (ex.NBA). Don't let that define who you are as a person. I know in our culture having a big @$$ is celebrated. What ever your best feature is...a guy will zoom in on it, whether it be your butt, breast, legs, hair, eyes and etc. I don't know your age so maybe you are too young to know when a guy is full of it and is only interested in you because of your best asset. If all he ever talks about is your rump then leave him alone. Also if his conversation is basically him trying to get you in bed...then leave him alone. In time you will find a guy who respects and wants to know your mind and heart.
2006-07-12 16:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by carmen95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be the best you can be. Learn lots of things. Take classes of all you ever wanted. The more you can offer you can become the best candidate and , most of all, pray for guidance and to receive the person God has for you. Don't try to find it because you can make lots of mistakes when you are desperate.
2006-07-12 15:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by None 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is this under:skin and body?
this a relationship. and it dont happen over night. takes a lot of time to find the right one.
and when you are not looking then the one will be there.
be patient and it will be worth the wait, and that person will respect you and love you for you not for "your backside".
2006-07-12 15:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will. I beleive that you will. You just have to wait for the right guy to come along. Don't hurry things. Just have fun being single while you can. One day he will come.
2006-07-12 15:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by bored_rena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you be yourself, learn to be happy with yourself, and don't try too hard, yes, of course you'll find a boyfriend. Hang in there.
2006-07-12 15:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Allen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes keep looking
2006-07-12 15:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by minus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find a Prince Charming -- before the summer is up, trust me.
2006-07-12 15:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by godraiden2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-12 15:42:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋