Okay,wel last night i had a dream.it was really random.I dreamed that my mom was sick and she knew she was going to die,but our lives went on as normal.In the dream we were casually sitting in the living room and she started choking and died in my ams,while i was screaming "mommy, live you" over and over and over again.i was the only one that took notice of what was happening in the dream,.the rest of my family went on as normal...i had a horrific feeling inside.can anybody explain this?
2006-07-12 08:16:18 · 16 answers · asked by kill_the_barbies!! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
It seems like maybe you subcoscioulsy feel like there is something in your mothers life that is stifling her and/or keeping her from "living" the life she deserves. Is she still married to your father? Or step-dad perhaps? If so, perhaps she is not getting the emotional sustenance that a marriage is intended to provide. Maybe she is un-happy with her job, or she is not taking enough time for herself. I don't know how close you are with your mom, but my take on this dream is that maybe you are more aware of your mom's emotional state than other people in your family and perhaps your subconscious is trying to tell you that perhaps you should take a more active role in your mother's life, and help her to figure out what she needs to help her lead a more fulfilling existence. For the most part dreams are ususlly more metaphorical than literal, so I dont think you should be worried about your mom's mortality per se, but try to figure out what the deeper less obvious meaning could be.
2006-07-12 08:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by MamaB 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
OK. As we get older, we "distance " ourselves from our family, we branch out and make our own lives that our parents are not a part of. I think your dream was your subconscious telling you that you are maturing and that the time will come when you branch out from your family. You're not ready just yet though.
It's a normal dream hon, don't be alarmed by it. We all grow up eventually and stop going to the refuge of our mother's embraces as often .
I'll hazard a guess that right now you are feeling a bit insecure about some aspects of your future.
2006-07-12 09:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by debisioux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone close to you will have a baby. It will be a boy. You will find out within 3 weeks. I have had many dreams of people dying, then a birth happened. Basically, I dreamt that my mother died, about a month later, my sister was pregnant, and she had a boy. Another dream, my best friend died, and her son had a boy. Another dream, my father died, and now my sister is preg, again this time with a girl.
2006-07-12 08:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by celtic_majik_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our night lives are more exciting and scary than our day lives for the most part. A psychiatrist friend of mine told me once that if you have a hum-drum day life, you have a really exciting and vivid dream life. He said that dreams really don't mean anything, they just happen. So, don't worry. Your mom is okay. Maybe you were just thinking of her when you fell asleep.
2006-07-12 08:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is in real time you feel that noone in your family sees how much you do to take care of the household except you. You are trying to see to it that everything is done just so...aka control the household so everything is in order the way your mom would do it, everything has a place and everything is in it's place. No other family member (as you see it) seems to care enough about what you feel is important.
2006-07-12 16:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by toothfairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sad about growing up and not being able to do the things that you use to do when you were younger. Our dreams help us through the changes in our lives. Many times through our lives we grieve the loss of our youth.
2006-07-12 13:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgot the critics my chum. Writing is a own element and it is your thoughts and thoughts you're expressing. i appreciate your artwork because it really is own. i do not extremely care about acceptable structure. Perfection is boring and over rated besides. that's like a music performed too completely. it really is chilly and impersonal. provide me a touch sloppiness and emotion any day.
2016-11-01 22:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see in this a deep need for you to reconcile with your mother. either something that is dividing you both, or some secret that you are hiding from her.
the choking is her inability to "swallow" the pride that you both have, which is separating you from her.
the other people in your dream are not aware of her "death" because to them, the divide does not exist.
look deep into your concience and if you have a religious belief, look to that for counseling and guidence to approach and remove this debris in your (or your mother's) life.
the fact that you held her and cried denotes a special bond called "love". the "love" that you hold for her, even though you are not able to express it because of the burden one (or both) of you carry.
-eagle
2006-07-12 08:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by eaglemyrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have perfectly normal worries and fears. There is nothing the least bit out of the ordinary in your dream.
2006-07-12 08:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by Loss Leader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do a search for dream interpretation
but I was always told death in a dream means a new begining
or it could be that you have a fear of loosing your mother in some way
2006-07-12 08:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋