2006-07-12 08:14:43 · 4 answers · asked by A L 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Like everything else, there is no “best” way, because every girl is different.
However, there are some similarities, and some things that most girls prefer.
You will want to slip between her legs and spread them apart, take time kissing down her thighs, and over her mons. Blow warm air over her vulva before pulling away and kissing her other leg or belly. When you get back to her vulva, slip your tongue over her lips, and maybe between them. Make a noise that indicates you are enjoying the experience. Don’t underestimate the importance of the tease.
Once you get started, you can put her legs over your shoulders, or use your shoulders to keep them spread apart. Take a few moments to lick over, around and between both sets of lips. You will want to use the fingers of one hand to spread her lips open to reveal her clitoris, and her vagina. You can dip the fingers of your other hand lightly across her vagina and clitoris to check out how wet she is. If you have done the tease right, she will be. While you are still spreading her lips open, you will want to dip your tongue into her, and lick up towards her clitoris. Be through.
You will want to focus your attention on her clitoris. Start out by closing your lips over her clitoris and suck lightly, or hum softly on it. You will want to use your tongue as much as possible, and keep a steady rhythm – nothing kills a girls orgasm faster than changing technique mid-stream. If your tongue starts to cramp up, you can wiggle it in a different pattern (but keep the rate steady), or you can try a slightly different technique for a moment while you rest your tongue.
Pay attention to your girl, she will let you know what she likes, and what she does not like. Avoid the things she doesn’t like, and keep doing the things she does like. Some girls don’t like direct clitoral stimulation, (though most do) so you will have to be less intense with these girls.
Once the intensity has started to build – you can slip a finger, and then two or possibly more, inside of her. Most girls like the feeling of something inside of them, but it is best to not go crazy and try to stick in your whole hand right away or without knowing that she is into that sort of thing. Just don’t let up on the clitoris, and make sure that your hands are clean, and soft – no rough skin or calluses.
Once she has an orgasm, she will want you to let up pretty quickly, as the whole area becomes very sensitive and any further stimulation can be unpleasant, so get away from the clit, but you can leave your fingers inside of her if you want to, and if she is ok with it – that is sometimes very nice for a little bit. Eventually – after a few moments to a few minutes you will want to slip your fingers out of her too.
That is a basic set of tips – but you will need to experiment with your girl, and develop your own style.
Some additional things to keep in mind:
Girls are pretty self conscious about their bodies and many girls for some irrational reason think that their vulva is dirty or bad, or smelly, and are very embarrassed about having you see it up close, or don’t want you to put your mouth on it – because that will make you dirty or something. If your girl is uncomfortable with you going down on her, make sure that you reassure her that it is something you want to do, and not something that you are doing because you think you “have to.”
Girls are also very insecure about their bodies and are sometimes uncomfortable being seen naked. An easy way to get around this is to sit her in a chair while she is still fully dressed, and slip your head down under her skirt, slip her panties off – if she is wearing any, and go to town. This is also great for a quickie. Or a semi-public place where you might get caught, because she remains fully clothed.
Also...
I do enjoy being bent over the back of something. It allows the guy to get so much deeper in me, and so much harder, he can be in total control, pull my hair, or reach around and finer me... and if he is not going to it makes it easier for me to finger myself ;)
I also like the way it makes my boobs bounce if he is not pressing me down against something...
For most guys – it seems like if I am wearing about a 3” heel I am just the right height... not sure why that is but still being in my heels is something of a turn-on too.
Besides I think it is the most natural way – when a girl bends over, she just naturally pops out between her legs – it makes for really easy access.
It is also very easy to do in a skirt... or for a quickie in a "public" place.
2006-07-12 08:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by ***** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask "feel like having sex?" Just start kissing and gently fondling and taking clothes off. Sponteneity is awesome!
2006-07-12 15:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by april_hwth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me i want to feel good i want him to feel good to but i don't want him to ignore me i want us to become one inside of each other i want him to be able to tell me what he wants and his likes and dislikes and i want him to know my likes and dislikes what makes me scream also women like to know what hes thinking .
2006-07-12 15:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by the shy one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls are just undercover freeks so, does that answrer ur question?
2006-07-12 15:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by kYM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋