2006-07-12 08:09:13 · 18 answers · asked by 2swt4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is an adult and you are a minor. Let him go and find somebody your age. Why would you be interested in a man who is a legal adult and you're not? Go out with guys your age and take your time. Enjoy being a teenager and stay in school. Don't worry about boys.
2006-07-12 08:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13!!! Sweety your not even in highschool yet. Take your time and don't even worry about dating anybody right now. You should be hanging out with your friends and having fun as a child and not even thinking about the dating scene. No one is saying you can't like anyone at that age because I know my hormones were flying, LOL. But you have plenty of time to think about dating and boys. When an 18 year old is seeking the company of a 13 year old all he wants is one thing. SEX. Sex should be special and not shared with a man who cares nothing about you. AND trust me a 18 year old man CAN'T have anything in common with a 13 year old girl unless he's retarded. Last time I checked most women don't like retarded and slow witted people. He is five years older then you and have lived more and he knows a lot that you don't. You have to be careful these days because people are crazy and will try and take advantage of you.
When I was 13 (which was 17 years ago) there was about 5 girls pregnant in school. I ran across a few of them later in life and they have lived hard lives. Being kicked out of their homes, not being able to get a job to support their child because their too young to work, they even looked older then what they were (which is not a good thing after 10-12 years and a baby). One of the girls even had to put here baby up for a doption because she couldn't care for it and ended up in a mental institution from the pain she suffered for having to give her child away. Protection is not an option either. The only safe sex is no sex. You can contract some diseases even with condomns. Orally too!!!
Don't rush please!!! He's not the one for you. If he really is the guy you are suppose to be with then he'll wait for you until your 18 and it's not against the law. And if you cared for him, you wouldn't want him to go to jail. Because that's exactly what will happen if you get caught.
Good Luck and think about your choices before you make them.
2006-07-12 15:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no logical reason an 18 year old boy should be interested in a 13 year old kid. While it may be flattering to you, would YOU consider dating an 8 year old? That's the difference in age you two share. 5 years.
2006-07-12 15:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush little girl. You're only going to get him in trouble, especially if he's performing ANY sexual touches with you. You might think you know it all, but you've got a lot of growing up to do. I'm sure your parents would not allow you to date him AND they love you and want the best for you and you're just too young and your hormones are affecting your perception as to what is best for you. 18-year-olds are men and he only wants ONE THING and he could end up being a pedophil. A pedophil is someone with sexual perversion in which children are the preferred sexual object.
2006-07-12 15:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by whatzerface 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl I'm gone tell you the truth!! it iz illegal for yall to go out. He iz a grown man, and from what i read you have only been a teenager for a year. I can relate to you cause my boyfriend iz 15 and I'm 13 its not illegal but things change when you get older. Weird things go on in a 18 yearolds mind so what I'm trin to tell you iz watch out!! B SAFE!
2006-07-12 15:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to seek help to be with someone much younger and for god sack a 13 yr old . sweety if i were you go with someone ur own age, he's gonna end up hurting you in the long run.
2006-07-12 15:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by phccchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, please help with what? You could be talking about anything... Get off the internet and go outside and play! Geez, when I was 13, I was riding my bike or playing w/ friends, not trying to act cool on the internet. ;)
2006-07-12 15:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by inaccord18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need help. . . you need rubber the size of Oprah's belly. 18" is H U G E..
2006-07-12 15:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you need help. You are to old for him. He's still a kid there are laws against that!
2006-07-12 15:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes going to jail
2006-07-12 15:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by millie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋