I'm searching for an article that appeared in the NYT.That Death of a close person is "easier" than Divorce

Question

The thust of the piece is that Divorce is more painful,harder to reconcile than the death of a loved one.That with a death there's closure,wheras in a divorce since the person is still alive,it is in many ways more difficult to reconcile.
I'm not sure when this appeared in the New York Times.I would guess that is was no further back than 5 years;it possibly could have been published in the past 2 years.
I've searched the Times archives,have done Google searches using different combonations of key words,but I'm unable to find this piece.

Answer 1

The first line of the article in the first link mentions moving a family is third to Death of a Loved One, and Divorce. With the order, they imply Death is #1 and Divorce is #2.

In the second article, Divorce is listed before Death of a Loved One, the loss of a job. No indication as to which is easier, but the assumption is Divorce is harder being listed first.

I don't see any articles that discuss the relative ease or disease with which the stress is dealt.