Ok so i met this dude off the internet and its actually my first time meeting someone from the internet. well anyways it started in Saturday and ever since then i have been seeing him, but it seems after a while i dont know what to say and how to act. He is the nicest guy (although he does have some issues, but not a problem) he is nice because he opens doors and buys roses and pays for everything and i have never had that. We hold hands and kiss but thats it. I dont feel chemistry and i feel i am not being quite my whole self because he hasnt seen this wild side of me. To me right now he seems like such a square but he does like to dance wich is great, but I want to let my whole self out ? What should i do?
2006-07-12 08:02:35 · 11 answers · asked by florlatinspice0825 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
ok you guys I was being my self and it worked out I am head over heels and he is such a great kisser now we both came out and showed are true selves it was awesome
2006-07-14 02:25:20 · update #1
A) Be honest with him. He seems from your description to be a nice guy. He deserves your honesty.
B) Tell him you enjoy being with him, but there's no spark. Ask him if he feels the same.
C) If he does, then congratulations! You got you a shiny, new friend.
D) If not, then split. DO NOT waste his time or yours on a relationship that will not be, on any level, satisfactory to BOTH of you.
2006-07-12 08:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Granny Annie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell HIM about this stuff, not us. It could be a relationship or it could be a learning experience. Either way, you stand to gain more from it by being honest and being yourself. May as well encourage him to do the same. If you are both being who you really are and there's still no chemistry, you can walk away. But the chemicals don't really flow if you are suppressing yourself. Do you really want him to be a gentleman all the time? Or are you tricking a nice guy into buying dinners and movies? It's nice that people want to be nice to one another, but let him let his good behavior down for a while so you can see who he really is and he can see who you really are.
Then add some more passion to those kisses. It either works or it don't.
2006-07-12 15:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by anyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him see the real side of you. To hold back that part of you would be a lie and he wouldn't be liking you for all that you are. If you don't feel chemistry then maybe you should tell him that, but besides that you should let him see your wild side and decide if there is chemistry with that part as well.
2006-07-12 15:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by punkdtn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself or it won't have a chance of working.
The opening doors / roses thing is nice.....but that'll wear off most likely in time....not a reason to hang on to a relationship if nothing else is there.
2006-07-12 15:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy wanted to meet you based on who you are, so show him. If he ends up not liking it, you won't be wasting your time. Good Luck and be careful of internet meetings.
2006-07-12 15:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by wannabebeachbum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your real self out and be honest. "To thine own self be true" If he's as great as you say, maybe you won't have as much of a problem as you fear.
2006-07-12 15:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by MICKEY D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit,... when you are confused for your self,and you don't know other side of they gay ,what you think. and second option take more time and see, but you are so confused.Better cooldown and then think with cool brain and take diccen your self.Good luck and brave and go ahead..
2006-07-12 15:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be yourself around him,what's the point of being with him? It's best to be the real you from the beginning.
2006-07-12 15:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your whole self out.
2006-07-12 15:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self, act for bieng who you are.
2006-07-12 15:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by jinky mae c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋