When my hubby goes away a miss him like mad. When he is back he does my head in after a few days. Plus he gets me and the children out of rotine, why do men like to do that to us? It takes a few days to sort things out with the children then takes men 2 mins to change everything. Explain it to me plz.
2006-07-12 07:56:53 · 2 answers · asked by Pinkflower 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I definetly understand where you are coming from. My husband is gone for a miniumum of 5 weeks at a time and home for a max of 2 weeks. You are right. the first couple days are great but then I have to separate my children ( meaning my 8 yr old and her 32 year old father ) They fight like cats and dogs. Then when my daughter wants something and i say no. She just goes to her dad knowing he will say yes. When I ask him why he does this it pretty much tells me he is trying to get the best father award by letting her do what I don't let her do. Why they do this I don't know. But I definetly understand where you are coming from.
~Good luck
2006-07-12 08:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bon Bon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was a split day off trucker, over the road twice a week. So I think he felt since he was gone for those days and split days off he can come in and do whatever whenever and no thought at what he was doing to the routine of the family and young children. The only thing that did stay was bed time.
But for some reason they have no reguard to what we are doing or the reason. Even if we explain this to them.
Read Men are from Mars and women are from Venus the marriage one. It is very good.
2006-07-12 15:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋