2006-07-12 07:54:50 · 6 answers · asked by Sxyblkdiva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People are conditioned to be concerned about what other people think of them. The whole world revolves around who is doing what and in judging other people for who and what they are.
If the whole world would be more concerned about their own business, instead of everyone else's, this world would be a great place to live! I mean think about it, if we all cared about each other and looked out for one another, instead of slandering, judging and gossiping, we would all be better off. But people are not structured this way, if you can find fault with someone else, you don't have to look at yourself! Do what you need to to be happy with yourself and your life, and you won't care so much about what anyone else thinks, if someone cares about you, they will love you the way you are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If they don't, they are not worth your time!
2006-07-12 08:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are so determined to please other people that they're not even thinking about themselves. The only person that can define their happiness is the individual themselves. Everyone has to do what is best for them, and stop listening to what others have to say. The sooner they realize that, the better off they'll be.
2006-07-12 08:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to believe in yourself enough to stand up to the world and do what makes you happy. Everybody wants to tell everybody else what to do instead of minding thier own business. It was so hard for me to believe in myelf and now that I am starting to it is even harder for the people who have "pushed" me around for so many years to accept that I am a PERSON. Stand up for who you are and believe in yourself. The road ahead of you won't be easy. But YOU can do IT!!!!
2006-07-12 08:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by confused/hurt/angry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because human beings are just like that. They are so self conscious that one comment can bring their self esteem to an ultimate low or high. It's when you can be comfortable with yourself that you can achieve the right to your own happiness.
2006-07-12 07:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people are under this mistaken impression that other people are supposed to make them happy.... and they are weak, have poor self esteem, and are naive
people need to learn that before they can be worth anything to anyone they need to be happy and at peace with themselves!
2006-07-12 08:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can't make a decision on their own.
2006-07-12 07:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋