I'm wondering if some of the things said in realationships are from the heart or said out of spite of situations.I've met a wonderful "woman" who I know that she IS rare however two situations bother me:1:One day we were conversating she asked me IF I was in the presense of celebrities what would I do?So me just being me I replied if I saw Halle Berry I would grab her azz!!!!,for all the arguments with friends and classmates on wh's the finest women etc;etc.Hypothetically speaking,I'm thinking we're just dream talking,if/but talking yopu know?She replies by saying "I see you cheating on me"!!!honest as she can be!!!!So now what?Why would she say that when she asked the question?That disturbed me that she put me in that category of a cheater,I'm shocked she labeled me like that.Am I wrong for telling her that she REALLY thinks of me like that?I've NEVER accused her of being a cheater and she has open opportunity to do so.I would never know anyway.i do love her like no other woman before
2006-07-12 07:45:34 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go ahead, ask her How could you label me by asking a hypothetical question? I'm not a cheater! I take exception to your labeling me like that. Almost declaring your availability. Take it slow grasshopper. That was a leap for any woman to go to that extreme. Take it slow.
2006-07-12 09:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell hath no fury, and it sounds like somewhere in the time before you, this woman was treated badly. She seems to lack enough self-confidence to read your joke as a joke. I'm with you on this as my boyfriend and I have had the celebrity sex conversation before and I know even if his favorite sexy celebrity walked up to him, he'd turn her down just for me. Maybe all she needs is a little reassurance from you. Sit her down and tell her how you feel. Tell her that even if Halle Berry walked up to you and wanted to take her home, you'd have to tell Ms. Berry that you're already going home with the most beautiful woman in the world, which is her. Ask her why she said such a thing...this could open the door to revealing why she's so darned paranoid. Once you know what's really going on inside her head, then you can work it out. Communication is key! Good luck!
2006-07-12 07:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the hell would you say to the women you love that you would grab Halle Berry's *ss ?? So basically what your telling her is that when an extremely beautiful is in your presence you will want to grab their *ss. Straighten this out with her so she doesn't continue to think of you as a cheater. But then again you did say you would grab some other women's *ss.
2006-07-12 07:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does Halle Berry know about this?
Seriously, it sounds like you're just getting to know each other, and she might have insecurities. You're right, she asked the question and obviously it's not like you bump into Halle at the supermarket... but on the other hand if that's all you'd think of if you saw Halle, well....... not many points there.
2006-07-12 07:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are wrong here. Listen to me...you are both young. I can tell. If a lady says "does my butt look big" -- what kind of answer are you going to give her? DAAAHHHHH. Not "yes" unless you want your butt kicked. BUT she sounds like she is insecure now too so that will be an issue in your relationship (although the chances of you meeting H. Barry are slim). She didn't really WANT to hear the truth (that is the kind of thing you keep in your own fantasy world). THINK BEFORE SPEAKING.
2006-07-12 07:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW this sounds like an extremely jealous person. That is not good. Next thing you know you are out to dinner sitting with your head down, staring in your plate because she is afraid you are checking out the waitress. God forbid you ever have to work overtime....you'll be sleeping with a co~worker in her mind. Trust me I know women like this. My b/f and I joke around about stuff like that. I mean if he ever meets Angelina Jolie or Alyssa Malino....they are free game. If I ever meet Stone Cold Steve Austin or Vin Diesel he knows what I will do. It is not something to be taken seriously. These are celebrities for crying out loud. Give me a break. I know that my man looks at other pretty girls and I look at good looking guys. That is human nature. It don't mean that we would cheat on each other. RUN RUN LIKE HELL.....SHE IS WAYYYYYY TO JEALOUS FOR A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.
2006-07-12 07:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by geni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you are both a little crazy. When having a conversation about what if's everyone involved should know it is just talk. If she is going to take what you said and use it against you the rest of your days, GET OUT NOW!
2006-07-12 07:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by gina_road 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one of those questions that you don't answer honestly you give the answer you think she wants to hear. You know can't figure out a woman thing
2006-07-12 08:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know gurls love liers at that point u should have told her ok i wuld difintly take u with me to show u to every body and tell every one how my gf is pretty ...trust me if u would have said some thing like that and closed the subject she would have been ol happy .......some times try to be a lier
2006-07-12 07:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start thinking before you put your foot in your mouth again!
2006-07-12 07:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋