How do I get my wife to dress and act like a s.l.u.t.?

Question

It would be a big turn on to me if she let it all hang out!!!!

Answer 1

Just be frank with her and tell her that's what you want, but don't be surprised if she enjoys it and want's to dress like that all the time.

Answer 2

ok a bit of a touchy subject. This depends on how you REALLY feel about your wife. If she knows that you love and cherish her for her, but the two of you are just trying to spice up your love life and do a little role playing than this dressing up like a slut will be alot of fun for the both of you and could bring some stimulating and heated lovemaking between the two of you and make you both fall into a deeper love for one another. BUT......if you are doing this just because and you truly treat your wife terrible and she knows it and you are just doping this for you and not for the both of you then this is a VERY bad idea. It will hurt her and will make her think and view your realtionship as that you are either thinking about or actually cheating. Talk with your wife and find out what she wants to do.

Answer 3

This situation is between a husband and his wife. Some husbands don't mind when his wife dresses provocatively because he knows she's going home with him at the end of the night--sort of like showing her off. On the other hand, some men don't want their wife to dress as such, and that is something the two need to work out together. Out of respect for each other, they should come to a compromise. Because no two couples are the same, there is no "the must do x,y,z," that can be imposed on everyone. Cheating is wrong of both men and women. Everyone recognizes this. I have NEVER met a single person that has ever said a woman cheating was "sexual liberation." IF there are people out there that say it, they are far and few in-between. Men do not cheat because women cheat. Nor do women cheat because men cheat. Cheaters cheat because they are of that low and selfish mentality. No one can be blamed but the cheater. People can control themselves. When they make the choice NOT to control their base desires, no one can be blamed but them. I'm fine with exploring one's sexual identity and being sexually free as long as it is between consenting adults, safe, and no lies.

Answer 4

let her know that you want her to ACT and dress dirty, but only for you. that it would be a major turn on for you. let her know that women who are willing to fulfill thier husbands bedroom fantacys are less likely to worry about him having an affair. buy her an outfit or two that you would love to see her wear( if she is conservative type, dont be xtreme at first, try a school girl outfit or something) remind her that the only one who has to see her that way is you. since there are so many actual sluts out there, goodwill is a good place to get a few outfits cheap, make sure you wash them before she wears them.as far as the acting sluty part goes, she will need time to learn that, so be patient. just make sure that her efforts are rewarded even if she doesnt do what your expecting make sure she knows that you are stimulated by it...men are visually stimulated, every woman needs to know that to keep her man happy. but a lot of women can be stimulated knowing that she has the power to make you drool, so let her see you drool over her, let her know she has that power over you.


ps...she does not need to feel dirty or shameful, if she acts and dresses this way for you she is not a slu.t, just open to making her husband "happy"


good luck

Answer 5

Tell her that you love and respect her, first of all. Take the kids to your moms house or a sitter, and have a sexy outfit waiting in her, along with a digital camera or a video tape recorder. Tell her you would like to role-play with her, and that you want her to be the "naughty, desperate housewife" and the dirtier the better. Buy some edible body paint and some flavored motion lotion. Dont forget to schedule some cleanup time for her first though. I know I like to get dolled up and squeaky clean and groomed before adventures like this with my man.

Answer 6

Well, first, it appears obvious that she doesn't feel comfortable doing so or it's not her style if you're requesting it. I think that if you would like to see her like that, it should be left in the bedroom, and you can approach her with it as "role play". But, as a woman myself, you have to be careful when approaching her with this. If she's not comfortable with it, she may start to think that that is what you really want, and she will feel less secure. If you truly love her, respect her wishes if she chooses not to do so. And, please make sure that she knows you will love her no less for not choosing to do it.

If you don't honestly care how she feels about it, then you need to step back and ask yourself if you really should even be married.

Answer 7

Wife To Slut

Answer 8

Initiate a conversation about fantasies and tell her yours. Explain what a turn on it would be for you and ask her if she would be willing to do it on special occasions. If she is GGG arrange to go away for a long weekend where she can try it out away from anyone who knows you. If you hold up tour end, you know what I mean, she may be willing to induldge you more often. If she's not up for it don't be a mook about it.

Answer 9

I know this is going to sound crazy, and radical, but go shopping with her. Leave the kids with a sitter. Go to the sexy clothes stores in the mall, find something slutty and just ask her to try it on. Show her the effect it has on you, and you are off and running. Worked for us. Now she jokes that she is my trophy wife that I could never afford otherwise.

Answer 10

Thats not very nice really. You should not want to change your wife and into a s.l.u.t well thats not really great now is it?

Answer 11

u dont shes your wife. out in public she doesnt want to dress like that. never does a woman want to act like that unless she is. thats wrong. in the bedromm lingere but not in public its crazy that u would wont ur wife to do that!