why is it when i am walking with my best friend who is a boy,i will be the only one raising topics to chat about,and without that it will be silence until i start,it really annoys me.whats wrong with this guy or is it that all boys do that.
2006-07-12 07:40:42 · 16 answers · asked by wanab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he is either shy because he likes you, or is just guy that doesn't know what to say.
2006-07-12 07:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by chefboo210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, most lads do this, and it is so annoying sometimes, he either fancys you and is keeping quiet so he wont say something stupid, or he might think that what he will talk about you wont be interested in so he keeps quiet, What i usually do is ask loads of questions because this will get him talking, try avoiding yes or no questions coz if he is shy he will only reply with yes or no. If he has been your best friend for a while you should know what hes into but if you have just me him its obvious he likes you.
2006-07-12 14:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably nervous around you and is too busy over-thinking everything that you say so that he won't say something stupid. Just keep doing what you're doing, and eventually he'll get more comfortable. Sometimes it's better to be in a group setting...it'll take a little of the pressure off and maybe he'll open up a little more.
2006-07-12 14:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlie it's beacuse all guys boys men are different-- he probably is not sure what to say(shy) is not very confident or plain and simple is bored with your topic of conversation and wants to give u the subtle hint to like ''go away''
2006-07-12 15:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are not like girls who can talk about anything! Boys give direct and thought out answers. They do not encourage meaningless chit chat or know how to deal with it.
2006-07-12 14:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by amylr620 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out something he likes (like a movie, or a game you know he definitely enjoy) and ask questions about it. Like why do you like that game...? or I love that movie...because I think.... do you agree with me?
asking questions about what he likes to do, or see where he has to answer with more than a yes or no, will definitely make more two way conversations. You see in no time he will talk more.
2006-07-12 15:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mary7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha some guys are just like that...they are nervous around girls. They don't know what to say...You should find out what his interests are and find out what he likes to do. That way you can both find what you have in common. THEN, you both can talk about things that both interest you so that the conversation will flow much easier.
~I hope this helps~
2006-07-12 14:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all people are talkative.. some don't feel the need to fill a perfectly content silence with pointless words
2006-07-12 14:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by nobodysangel_nobodysfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probly just shy talk 2 him and tell him he should talk more hope dis helps
2006-07-12 14:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be shy or just does not have topics to bring up.
2006-07-12 14:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by lil_l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only most boys some actually have brains that work
2006-07-12 14:56:44 · answer #11 · answered by Berni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋