hie guys,what stories can i chat with my best friend who is a boy,which does not reflect as if i like him.please girl who have a best friend who is a guy or boys with best friends who are girls,or anyone.please help me with stories which can chat over the phone or when we hook up.thanks.
2006-07-12 07:33:41 · 8 answers · asked by wanab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I hav 2 agree with julie w.... if he's your best friend u should be able to talk about almost ANYTHIN with him! my "bestest" friend is a guy, and i've known him 4 the past 4 years... we talk about anything and everything! He knows when i'm in bad mood, i dont even have to tell him! he helps me with the guys i like.... he helps me outta sh*t (i'm practically always in sh*t!!!), he goes shopping with me, he even helps me decide what 2 wear!!! Eventhough to everybody else i'm like this big, tough, lady thug... to him i'm just a person with feelings! cos' even big, bad girls need 2 cry sometimes.... he's ALWAYS there!!! u could try askin him 2 help u with a guy u like then he wont think u have a thing on him.... hang with him more, get to know him, share things with him, help him, be there when he needs u.... basically just be a good friend!! BUT if u do develop feelings for him DONT suppress them! every body has the right to feel...! Tell him about your feelings and then work it out together... if he IS a good friend he'l understand and hu knows maybe you'l turn out 2 b better friends than you ever were!!! Dont worry about what 2 say.... just talk about you, school/college wuteva, ask him about him n his family stuff like that.... Get 2 know the person within. Get to know the person behind tha mask. THEN u can truly love him for hu he is!
2006-07-18 07:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself, and treat him as a friend, I had a best friend as a matter of fact I had more friends who were guys than girls, and all I did was tell them about myself,what I liked to do,about my past, and joke with them, I was never a tomboy or anything but I wasnt SUPER girly, I was as they'd say "smart, funny, pretty and nice" so you should do the same, although Ill tell you this in a relationship between a girl and boy theres always one who likes the other person, for ex i had a HUGE crush on my best friend and then he did it for me but we stayed as friends cause first we were too far apart and second we were scared to loose eachother
2006-07-12 14:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by jimena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to make sure that he knows you are NOT interested, correct? I didn't understand the last part when you said, "or when we hook up."
When I talk to my guy friends, I talk to them like I would my girlfriends. Sometimes I'll ask for dating advice which is a major clue that you don't want to date him, but that you're interested in other guys. If you trust him well enough you could even ask him about your crush. Also he could do the same to you and ask for advice as well. Just talk to him about his day, his friends, what's going on. There are no real subjects you can talk about that would indicate you're not interested. As long as you're not flirting with him, you should be fine. You don't want to give him mixed signals or anything. Good luck!
2006-07-12 14:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
home life,past experience,dreams aspirations,ur every thoughts cuz a friend's supposed to be someone u can confide in.
2006-07-12 14:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Elisabeth R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure what your problem is or why you've got one....if this is a best friend then you should be able to talk about almost any thing.
2006-07-12 17:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by julie w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 2 books amillion
2006-07-12 14:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by tbone18305 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will have to agree with Shorty
2006-07-12 14:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
embarassin moments ,sports , movies
2006-07-12 14:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋