I am 14 and I have a friend that's bi, she tried to hit on me untill I told her I was " strickly " ........... you know the rest ! Now I, knowing she has feelings for me feel weird around her!!!!!!!!! What should I do?
2006-07-12 07:27:41 · 12 answers · asked by spongey Gurl 0503 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanks facelessmortall !! And P.S. WHO could BLAME her I'M SUPPER HOT !!!!!! lol
2006-07-12 07:48:30 · update #1
wytnee8786, if you think it's wrong why is your picture you kissing another gurl?
2006-07-12 07:50:14 · update #2
I have friends who are gay/bi-sexual, and they have hit on me before and would love to go out with me if I were gay/bi. I am a straight male for the most part, and sometimes have bi-sexual thoughts, etc.. (i'm 15). Your friend is doing what you would do if you saw some hot guy. What you need to do is relax. Your friend may have feelings for you, so you need to be nice about this, but tell her, "hey, I'm flattered, but I'm straight." You SHOULD feel flattered about it, the thinks your hot basically. Just let her know that your flattered or whatnot, and forget it. If she hits on you again, don't say "your freakin me out" or something similar. Just let her know it makes you feel uncomforatable.
Hope I helped.
2006-07-12 07:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by facelessmortal 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with it. But I think it's entirely up to you to decide whether you want to do it or not, and if you don't, you have every right not to. If you don't want to and your is still flirting with you, she needs to stop, and accept that no means no. But if your friend has stopped flirting with you and accepted that you're not interested, and your just worrying about the fact that she made a pass at you once, then I'd say you need to stop worrying about it and just be her friend.
It might help you to know that most women are at least a bit bi, and quite a few of them try it out when they are young -- your friend isn't that unusual.
2006-07-12 14:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by Roger D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell her "when she grows up and gets past her experimental stage of her youth, call again & perhaphs you can be friends again. That you are not interrested in a lifestyle like that, nor do you support her choice". That should make it very clear. You don't agree and she should respect you , just like she wants respect. What if she was shooting up, or snorting? Would she expect your support there too. I think she is looking for attention, and I wouldn't give it to her for bad choices.... Good Luck.
2006-07-12 14:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really is your friend she should respect your feelings and your still so young so she probably wants to experiment but don't feel wierd. Make sure that your friend understands how you feel or your friendship won't last but if she cares then you'll be ok.
2006-07-12 14:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by tigereyes2481 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know again where you stand with her being bi and let her know that there is nothing nothing nothing that could ever happen between the 2 of you and if she can't understand then tell you can't be friends anymore.
2006-07-12 14:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know shes ur friend and all but if you dont swing that way. then tell her that ur sorry and that its just not going to work as u to being friends anymore but in a nice way.
2006-07-12 14:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all double negatives are awful.... you should work on that
and second as far as people who are gay i say to each his own... who am i to tell them it's wrong?
and im sure its awkward around your friend now....but give it time and things will get back to normal....
2006-07-12 14:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut her off immediately. If you dont, there will emotional trouble ahead for you.
2006-07-12 14:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you're not comfortable around her anymore.
2006-07-12 14:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep your distance
2006-07-12 14:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by kareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋