i develope feelings of leaving my husband while he is at work, but when he comes home i love him so much and would never leave him
2006-07-12 07:19:51 · 7 answers · asked by taby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel sorry for your husband
2006-07-12 07:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club. My hubby works 12-15 hours 6 days a week. I get terribly lonely and look for love almost anywhere I can find it. I actually found it recently only to discover that no amount of love from another man can replace the love I want from my husband. Here's what you do: Close your eyes, picture yourself old and grey... is he there with you? If he is then you must give it a chance. I know you've probably heard it before, but talk to him. I had to tell mine that he needed to spend more time (quality time not just talking about work) with me or I was going to divorce him. I don't want to leave him, but I don't want to live this way anymore either... that sure got him back on his toes. Also, maybe try something artistic such as painting or writing. I used to paint and quit when I got married because my hubby didn't really understand it and I got my feelings hurt a few times.... but yesterday I decided to return to it no matter what he has to say. I hope I can help you... you can contact me if you like, as I think we are in the exact same situation. coloryst@yahoo Best wishes
2006-07-12 15:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not sure what you want. My wife left me and my son after 12yrs and it has torn us apart. There was not a day that went by that I didn't tell her I loved her and show her how much I cared. Something happend over the years that my feelings for her didn't matter to her anymore. Maybe she got bored. I don't know. She's dating someone now and it is killing me. You need to decide if you love him or not and if not, you need to look at how it will affect him. If he treats you good and loves you you need to find out why that isn't enough to make you happy. I have been trying to figure that out with my wife too because I did everything I could think of to get her to stay and nothing worked.
2006-07-12 14:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by scheib65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead and do it you know you love your husband but you are feening for something other than what you lay with every night so go ahead and do it I won't tell if you won't then you won't have the urge any longer holla if you want to chat let_it_xhale@yahoo
2006-07-12 14:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by let_it_xhale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, why you want to leave your husband and go from there.
2006-07-12 14:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop watching soaps.
2006-07-12 14:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol! NOT!!!!
2006-07-12 15:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jane*One look is all it takes... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋