she is a clover bud adviser for 4-H and she has little ones around the age of 4-8 and she told me one time that there was this kid that if it was her kid she would beat him to death she also threatans me all the time that she will beat me !!! im 13 and i can see why she may get frustrated with me some times since im a teen but im no were near as bad as she aggs me on to be is this normal for a mother to do this she never did this to my brother why am i so hated ????
2006-07-12 07:12:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Are you sure that you are hated??? Sometimes a parent has a hard time to get along with the child that is most like themself. There are other parents who prefer one sex child over the other. Don't ask me why, but I think they are nuts when they play favorites, etc. You should love all your kids, but I too have seen the above happen.
2006-07-12 07:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bobbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time to talk to your mom. See if you can make something for her, or if you have pocket money, buy her a gift. See if you can massage her feet when she comes home from work. Sometimes it is tiring to deal with 4-8 yrs old kids for the whole day. Keep the house neat and tidy so she does not have to stress more when she comes home. Try it and see, maybe it will work. If it still continues, speak to a close family friend about the problem, so they can tell her how it is affecting you. But fist talk to her. Be calm even if she looses it. it it gets out of hand just walk to your room till she is calm.
2006-07-12 08:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by charmaine m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh darlin- I doubt your mother even comes close to hating you! She loves u more than life itself! Trust me I know- I have a 15 year old son! Sometimes a mom will say things wild just to get your attention! Like " if you dont clean your room Im gonna kill u" DOES NOT mean you will get killed! She has alot of stress going on right now. Your the oldest so its coming down on you thats all. Tell your mom exactly how u feel and how much it hurts you when she does this- I KNOW if it were my son telling me I was hurting his feelings i would DEFINETELY want to change things! Good luck
2006-07-12 07:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure you're mom doesn't hate you, She just might be a little adjetated. Maybe she's stressed out and you are the one that gets the brunt of her anger. Maybe if you try talking to her it will help. I know it's hard talking to your parents but maybe it will help. I know my mom was hard to talk to, but If I asked my mom, can I talk to you, then she would listen, sometimes she would yell at me, but most of the time she would at least listen. Dont worry Im sure things will get better for you. Soon you'll be 18 and you can move out on your own. How about your dad can you talk to him. Or maybe another family memeber, someone that could help you talk to your mom so you went be so scared. Good Luck to you.
2006-07-12 08:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by saraidan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom threatens me and i am 13 soo it musty be something some moms do at that the age of 13 (the age of their children)
2006-07-12 07:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by babynam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you talk to her wrong place wrong time. i know my mom get's like that once every moon
2006-07-12 08:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by 10 Tween Black_Gurl Tween 10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHUT UP U LIL SLUTY, U R CRAZY, NOT UR MOM
HOW CAN U EVER POSIBLY CALL UR MOM CRAZYY HUHHHHH
SHE GAVE U LIFE
SO THINK BOUT IT
2006-07-12 07:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take her to see a psychiatrist
2006-07-12 07:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's really fustrated. try talking to her.
2006-07-12 07:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her!
2006-07-12 07:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by angelrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋