I am a rather goodlooking 17 year old guy,and I have realized that many girls like or fall in love with me at the first time we meet,and this affection lasts for about 1 month or something...
Irononically after this period of time they suddenly act like I have slept with their mother...
I am always myself,never try to seem cocky or anything that would hurt her
All I wanna say is that I always try to be considarete and the girl acts like a ***** after a while!
More Ironically after about 4 months they call be back and tell me they miss me!!!
2006-07-12 07:10:41 · 17 answers · asked by Jackson 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
FYI I don't really share feelings or am nice
2006-07-12 07:16:12 · update #1
FYI I don't really share feelings or am nice
2006-07-12 07:16:43 · update #2
Figure out who you are and what you stand for. The attraction comes because you are a nice guy but that kind of attraction gets old if there is nothing behind it. Have an idea about where you're going, what you are going to accomplish and don't be afraid of being a little cocky. It adds depth of caharacter and interest. Now don't carry that to an extreme; but have it in your bag of tools.
Above all, don't be or appear needy. So many guys get hooked and fall apart at the slightest disinterest by their girls. This is a terrible spiral that always leads to bad things.
Good Luck!
2006-07-12 07:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, most people beyond the age of 20, don't believe in falling in love with someone the first time they meet. As soon as you gain a more mature perspective on love, and the magical powers you seem to feel you have on women, you'll date more mature girls, have more mature relationships, and everything will fall into place.
2006-07-12 14:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you Jackson. It's just when it comes to girls like those they are probably going out with you to pess someone off and then when the person they're trying to pess off wants them back they act like an *** towards you. And when they call you they want to make some one else jealous. And the circle goes on and on. So when ever they want you back say no a move on. You'll find some one that appreciates you the way you are.
just wait,
*Brooke*
2006-07-12 14:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by brooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound alot like my husband at 17! He tought he was so slick, I just ignored him for about a month, he must have like the challenge! Anyway, we dated for 3 yeas and now we are married and I gave birth to his7 kids! He really is a great guy, NOW! You will get tired of the chase, and find a nice girl.
2006-07-14 16:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by admyr75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R U too much of a nice guy...sometimes unfortunately that can be a turn off. Women that young don't know what they want or what is best for them.
Stay true to yourself and the right woman will come along and appreciate you for you.
Good Luck
2006-07-12 14:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you there. It sounds like to me there the ones with the problem. These girls that are around you,having grown up yet or want to play this social game at no matter what the cost to other people's feelings. :( There are better off girls out there for you. Try being around people who are less shallow,have better people skils and who treat people with respect.
I hope this helped you out there.
2006-07-12 14:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Gadget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, yes there is just a little something wrong with you. admitting that you're a rather good-looking guy is the first clue. the second is that you're also crying out in disdain at the fact that "many girls like/fall in love with you" the first time you meet.
i hereby diagnose you as balloon headed...
2006-07-12 14:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of you being teens, it is expected that emotions are off the wall.
I'd suggest you DATE, and not get involved soley with any one particular individual. Enjoy fun, and good times with many others.
You have plenty of time...down the road... to be with one exclusively. Enjoy your YOUTH! Dont be concerned about mood swings. Perhaps you may get an inkling of what parents go thru with their teen sons and daughters!
2006-07-12 14:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to find the right girl that wants to be with you all the time and like u for who u r
2006-07-12 14:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are acting like a punk in the begining and trying to be all sweet. girls like a game.. to be chased and wanted. They also like to chase. If you aren't hard to get and are easy to receive... they move on... Make them want you...
2006-07-12 14:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by JCL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋