How do I tell him?

Tell him he got to do the fun part (helping make the baby) and you're going to do the hard part (carrying the baby to term and giving birth) so what's it to him?

If he's that selfish that he wants you to have an abortion, why would you possibly want to stay with him? Because the baby will be a strain on your relationship? Because the baby will cost too much? Because the baby will take away from his alone time with you? That's pure selfishness, and honestly...do you really want someone like that helping raise your baby?

2006-07-12 06:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Just say it. Don't worry about his thoughts. It is your body, your baby. He can take it, or leave it. If he doesn't want this child, then he should have thought about that. If you want to keep this baby then great! There are plenty of things and organizations available to help you if you have to raise this child on your own, and if you don't want to, adoption is always an option. But, just tell him straight... no abortion.

2006-07-12 07:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ali Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

"Abortion is not an option."

He helped make it, he can help raise it. Tell your boyfriend he no longer can think like a "boy", he has to be a "father". Fathers can't be selfish. If he can't handle it, have him sign away his parental rights, you'll be better off with no father than a father who resents the child.

2006-07-12 07:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by JAMMco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

you just tell him like you told us - you say having an abortion us not an option - let's talk about what else we can do in this situation

Good luck!

2006-07-12 06:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by pammy_6201 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Just tell him that its your body and abortion is not something you would consider. He can't make you do it. If he is your typical male and is truly not ready for a child then you might lose him, but this is the price we pay for our actions sometimes.

2006-07-12 06:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by cwoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Exactly how you wrote it. "Hey baby, I am NOT getting an abortion! It's not an option and there is nothing you can do about it!"

2006-07-12 06:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by puppet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Tell him exactly what you said and then support your reasons. I don't mean reasons like articles and sorts. Support your reason, maybe its your belief, your religion or just a moral that you firmly support. Be firm but also make him understand what you believe in. If your boyfriend truly loves you, he will understand, he might not like it but there will be understanding. If not, well you tried to explain and thats all you can do. If you don't change his beliefs, then you should not.

2006-07-12 07:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by craxygirlnextdoor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Just tell him, say "I'm not having an abortion".

2006-07-12 07:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Now listen here ABORTION IS NOT AN OPTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how else would you like to tell him

2006-07-12 06:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

just tell him that it is your body and you are going to keep it or give it up to adoption. that he doesnt have the right to tell you what to do with the pregnancy that you are the one that has to carry it for nine months.

i would tell him just like that. and if you decide to keep it then go for child support. personally in my opinion he isnt too good of a person for wanting you to kill your baby. congrat on the pregnancy and may god bless you in you decision you have already made a good one by not killing you baby . thumbs up .

2006-07-12 07:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

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