Me and my wife have been seperated for a month now. We call eachother, buy eachother gifts, or give eachother money. We have also met twice since being seperated. My wife is a strong woman so when we talk she is not putting too much emotion in it, which i can understand. I have read books, talk to people who have been seperated in the past and everything. Last Friday my wife and i met and at first it was like a business meeting. Then she finally opened up, and we laughed , she flirted with me and told me how good i looked. She couldnt keep her eyes off of me. She asks questions like why are u tanning, did u spike your hair for me bc u know i like that, and have u been seeing other girls. Im not seeing other girls, just as friends, but its weird how she reacts to that statement. She called me last night, her and her sister are on a road trip. I said when we go upstairs, and she freaked out. i was talking about the dog and i not a girl. Sounds like she wants me back what do you think?
2006-07-12 06:37:39 · 19 answers · asked by abyss5069 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are separated and seem to be "dating" one another. Separation is usually a time where you get your space and you may or may not pursue counseling. I'm wondering what the cause of your separation was? Attend to the root matters in your relationship, instead of guessing what her head games could be. I'd say you have a lot of homework to do before you consider getting back together, otherwise you'll end up in the same boat - separating or divorcing.
2006-07-12 06:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-23 00:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she sounds like she is interested, that is for sure. Especially if she is the type that doesn't show emotion. I think she misses you....Do you want her back? If so, ask her straight up, if she wants to work things out. If there is still love between you two, there is always hope to work your marriage out. Good Luck on rekindling your love....
2006-07-12 06:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Poetess_4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-10 13:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just keep doing what you are doing. If you want her back keep trying to impress her. She seems interested to me. If it were me the attempts even just doing you hair or little things to look nice would help alot. That will let her know you still want to impress her. I agree with every one else tho you need to deal with whatever the problem or problems are but it seems maybe something is still there for both of you. Sit down and talk whatever happend out.
2006-07-12 06:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by SiberianHusky_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times it takes losing someone to realize how much you love them. Sometimes separation makes you realize this. I say keep talking and go on dates and try to get back what made you fall in love in the first place. If it is meant to be, then you will get back together. Good luck.
2006-07-12 06:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With our 18 years of marriage life I understood that husband and wife's ultimate responsibilities are to share and care each other and to fulfill each others every desire and fantasy.
2006-07-12 07:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by shahadat1963 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful...(did she leave you in the separation?) She may be asking out of guilt (perhaps she is seeing other men) Hope I'm wrong, but take it from someone who's been there....don't get your hopes up.
2006-07-12 06:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife still loves you very much. sounds like she needs to know and be reminded that you love her too. just hang in there, i don't think it's much of a crisis. it'll all blow away. just keep reminding her that you love her and will wait for her for as long as it takes. trust me it'll work.
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2014-08-07 17:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋