but thinks it's okay to maintain a relationship with you (no sex, just emotional). When you try to end it, he gets upset. What do you do?
2006-07-12 06:13:22 · 9 answers · asked by Dancer3d 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no sex or not, you two are still bonded and you know it's wrong to his wife. if he gets upset, too bad. you it's what's best for the three of you. it will be painful, but it's the right thing. you guys will get over it eventually.
2006-07-12 06:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Hamster Puff 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
End it for your own sake, especially because he is your ex. Maintaining an emotional bond just prolongs the inevitable. He chose to marry someone other than you. Accept it and move on. It's okay for him to be upset. That's life. You must think of yourself first, because he is selfishly thinking of himself.
2006-07-12 06:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it. Let him be upset.
That is what I call an "emotional affair"
He's trying to eat the whole cake.
He has a bond with multiple woman, getting something from each that he can't get from another.
Don't get messed up in his own drama...ecspecially if the wife a) doesn't like your relationship with her husband or b) doesn't even know.
Do what's good for you, let him make his own mistakes.
2006-07-12 06:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as he's married he should concentrate on "emotionally bonding" with her. He's an EX and as long as there are no children, there's no reason to continue the relationship. Good luck.
2006-07-12 06:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me, only that I was the one ending it because I got married…. It sucks time to time, but we do e-mail each other a happy b-day card
2006-07-12 06:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by sara76c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell em you've moved on and so should he ( i bet the wife is just in rage over his BS)
2006-07-12 06:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to his wife
2006-07-12 06:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how it is
2006-07-12 06:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to ...BITE ME!!!!! ;)
2006-07-12 06:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Arry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋