and a baby is soooo badly wanted and prayed for every day (one pregnancy was ectopic). any help would be very gratefully received
2006-07-12 06:05:38 · 8 answers · asked by torialw 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
hi there after trying for 14 yrs with several losses an thousands of pound on fertility treatments my grans friend recommended echinacea, as soon as u r pregnant stop taking them, its a natural anti biotic and helps ur body to get back into sinc, good luck. 2 of my friends who also had problems r both now expecting and i have a 3 an 4 yr old
2006-07-12 06:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but I dont think there is anything that will help. Medically I'm sure you have experienced it all-- It's just how we are-- some of us are very lucky to concieve first time and go on to have uncomplicated pregancies and sucessful births, whereas others are not so lucky. Yes wanting and having are 2 different things and I'm sure if it was meant to be- it would be...
I dont think anyone out there can give any solution or indeed play god-- Hence the need for infertility drugs and IVF. Other than keep yourself stress free and healthy, just enjoy life to the full-- it will happen one day i'm sure, and when it does you will look back and say 'god that was hard but well worth the wait'. 3 lost pregnancies in one year? thats hard going..
Give yourself a break and take care of your body- you only get one. Good luck, im sure you will have the baby u so want soon
2006-07-12 06:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 3 lost pregnancies in the past year, obstetrically you are considered high risk. Your GP/Consultant should be able to discuss with you the likely reasons for your miscarriages. Are these confirmed pregnancies? and at what gestation? All these are relevant to you getting useful answers.
You need to give your mind and body a break. Take a holiday, embark on a course or something to divert your attention from your unpregnant state. I am glad prayer is part of your everyday life.
It sounds like your problem is not conceiving; it is sustaining the pregnancy to term which should be discussed fully with your Doctors.
All the best,
Naadu
2006-07-12 07:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Naadu64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about your miscarriages, the only thing I can think of is do not quit taking your prenatal vitamins, they are great vitamins that will help your reproductive system and general nutrition be better, to keep you healthy. Do as much as you can to have a healthy life, like, no smoking, no drinking, no drugs, take your vitamins and most importantly drink LOTS of water!!
Give yourself some time before you try to concieve again, you have to let your body heal from the past miscarriages, if you sacrifice maybe 6 months for your body to get back to normal, you will see that it will be worth it later on, I know how bad it is to want a baby but take care of yourself first so you have lots of healthy life to offer your baby. God Bless you.
2006-07-12 06:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see that attire. I see a wonderful, talented, funny man. I love ya just the way you are, ((((((((((Jack)))))))))). No religion, no disease can change that. And, to be honest, I don't give a rat's asss what any religion has to say about HIV - or homosexuality. So, I can't really say how it's been influenced by it. Overall, religion continues to be popular in a day and age when humanity should be past such archaic thinking because people love to have an excuse to judge others - at least, this applies to the Abrahamic religions. And, I say "screw 'em".
2016-03-27 02:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that you might want it so much that it's not going to happen. I know exactly how you feel i wanted one for ages but because i wanted one it never happened so i forgot about it. 3 months later i found out i was 3 weeks pregnant. I'm not saying forget about it completely just put it to the back of your mind and things will work out for the best. But all the time your stressing about it it wont happen. Good luck and I'm sorry for your bad experiences in the past...
2006-07-12 21:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by xbabybrownsx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya I had an ectopic pregnancy nearly 2 years ago now. I understand your pain.
Visit www.ectopic.org to speak to women in a similar situation to yourself. I still visit now and again and my screen name is Tanya H. I look forward to seeing you over there, please do come and visit.
This site really helped me and loads of other women get through this and help with the legacy of EP and TTC afterwards.
2006-07-13 04:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult a gynaecologist ...
she should offer you a minor surgery called "McDonald's Stitch" or "Schrodker Stitch"
it closes the "os" that is the mouth of your uterus and thus avoids habitual abortion
best of luck
2006-07-13 02:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by sighspy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋