by your choice (why); however, she wants more attention than you can give. How do you explain that you have to put more focus on your marriage, without hurting her feelings. You love this person and cheerish the friendship...
2006-07-12 05:41:31 · 6 answers · asked by Dancer3d 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sit both your friend and your spouse down and work the problem out to see if there can be a middle ground before u just give up your friendship all together. involve everyone and keep no secrets!
2006-07-12 05:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You should explain that you have to cut this off becuase marriage is a commitment to one women and that marriage is your #1 priority. It may hurt and upset her but you need to cut it off dude, that friendship is bound to cause some uncomfort for your wife and her feelings come first not the friends.
2006-07-12 12:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I put out the old flames when I got married.
2006-07-12 12:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by norwood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a real friend she won't be hurt or threatened by him taking care of his chosen priorities. If she is threatened then she is looking for something more and will simply cause problems for herself.
2006-07-12 12:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the third party that marriage is more important-it is that simple.
2006-07-12 12:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop all communications. You are not being true to your mate.
2006-07-12 12:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋