I mean if I am walking or driving down the street or in a store and I see a good looking guy I sometimes think what if? Although I must say I am happy in my marriage. Is it normal to wonder about other guys?
2006-07-12 05:41:20 · 17 answers · asked by so sick of being broke 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Totally normal! I better be dead the day I don't look and wonder!
2006-07-12 06:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal. Your happy with your spouse and have a good marriage. There is nothing wrong at admiring, looking, or fantasizing about another. But that should be it, don't wonder away from a wonderful thing, because consequence's destroy a good thing.
2006-07-12 13:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by roseygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. You should try to work on that though, try to control your eyes and thoughts. It's not fair to your husbnad to let your eyes and mind wonder. Work on diverting your eyes and thoughts when you go there in your head. It's normal but it's also something you should try not to do anymore to be 100% faithful means in heart and mind also. It can start with innocent looking and thinking but inch by inch over years could end up to something less innocent. So try to stop the eyes and thoughts now, practice it and then it will become normal for you not to do that anymore.
2006-07-12 12:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think about other women and how fine they look but what ultimately stops me from pursuing is that I have a great wife, a happy marriage and besides she doesn't deserve that. It is hard sometimes but no one said marriage is easy.
2006-07-12 12:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Rolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to that is Yes and No. It all depends on what you thinking of this person and what are you looking for in another person.The question i asked of you are you happy. and Why are you stilling Wondering. Something must be missing in your life.......
2006-07-12 12:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Precious lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah for me yeah, becasue I look at women and say wow but then I said no I am happy married to my wife. It is normal to me but if cheating on your husband if you are happy or not and then it not normal. but normal to think that.
I said wow beautiful woman and i just smile and perosn wont smile back to you. I said yeah my wife smile at me all the time you don't.
Hope my 10 points worth it??? smiling
2006-07-12 13:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely look, wonder and even love to other man, even loving and caring your husband too. Love also means free and freedom. But don’t think the sex as Love. Love always flourish a life, but sex sometimes destroy a life.
2006-07-12 12:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by vsz59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep I would say that is normal you are married not dead. When you get married you don't go blind. I am sure your husband does the same thing not that you would want to think about it like that but he is human also.
2006-07-12 12:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal. Just because you've chosen your entree doesn't mean you have to stop admiring the rest of what's on the menu.
2006-07-12 12:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by jurydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally... the look but don't touch rule totally applies to us not just the guys.
2006-07-12 12:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋