He says that his Bond on his contractors license is suspended because of child support is this true? He has had his license suspended before for not paying but not his bond. I looked up his license and it says its suspended but not because of child support issues, but because he didnt renew his bond. Is it possible to not be able to renew bond but keep your contractors license? im confused....
2006-07-12 05:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by arreis 3 in Business & Finance ➔ Other - Business & Finance
i am sorry that you married such a loser. he can give you a million reasons to drop his child support but if he paid it in a timely fashion he wouldn't have any problems. and besides his problems are his, you are divorced now, right! he needs to pay you what the court determined is suitable and if he has a problem with that he can go to the courts and try to make it more reasonable for himself. instead of making you and the children feel it is your fault. he should never try to talk you into dropping it. this is a guilty pile of crap that a lot of my divorced friends have to deal with too. and it is wrong for him to lay blame for his inability to gain a bond or job or anything else upon you. sorry if this isn't the answer you are looking for, but I feel he is just using it as an excuse not to be responsible for his children's welfare, are you going to let him drop the health insurance next? and then what?
2006-07-12 05:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is apparent this man does not care about you or his child. If he is requesting you to drop the support just do it!. Why beat yourself in the head constantly fighting him for child support. He will continue to evade you which makes it hard for you, your child, and him to just get on with your lives. You have to learn from your mistakes, you made one with him show him that you dont need his measly support and that you can manage on your own. I dont know if you may be vindictive or still have feelings for him but show your strength and just get on with your life without this constant interruption...Trust me life would be so much easier. If he ever decides to come around and pay for those kids let him do so. But right now he does not want it so let it be. Grant him his wish and get him out of your system. And please do not listen to all those women out there. They made their choices also. Deep down they all know that they can get along without the support but this is only a way to get back at their Ex'es but not realizing it hurts everyone involved especially those kids.
2006-07-12 06:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by nuance92551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT I repeat DO NOT drop the child support..this guy is trying to manipulate you My ex tried the poor poor pitiful on me too. He doesn't care about you, or that you are parenting his child alone.Youshould absolutely not stop the support order. He needs to grow up and be responsible for his actions.
2006-07-12 05:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by serenity seeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The laws are getting stricter about child support, but don't drop the child support no matter what. It's his problem and his responsibility to support his children. Let him figure it out.
2006-07-12 05:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by kittylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow all of your extremely doing is getting rid of out of your daughter thanks to go mom yeah like how u further that when you realised how cruddy it made you look. He is going to reformatory because your daughter has the right to that money climate she desires it now or later she will want it and is entitled to each cent he owes. strengthen up and teach your daughter how grown united statesought to behave not that its elementary to get off even as against the law is commited
2016-11-01 22:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying to get away from his responsibility with an excuse.
Well, if you can afford your own child all by yourself, drop it otherwise don't make yourself suffer for your "EX"
Good Luck
2006-07-12 05:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by wennefoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just want's you to drop the child support, unless you acctually press charges about him not paying it doesn't affect him at all.
2006-07-12 05:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by jmdavis333 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for it....he's just trying to "snow" you.
2006-07-12 05:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋