I've been a relation ship for 23 years off and on ,that is when she decide's not to run off whith a nother guy .she's cost me many good paying job's the last job paid 55,000 a year .now that i'm sick of it were do i find a women to be good to me andshow me how to put my life together and to enjoy life
2006-07-12 05:34:45 · 10 answers · asked by mark v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no woman can show you how to put your life together or how to enjoy life - if you can't do those 2 things on your own, you're no good to anyone. and you can't really blame her for you losing those jobs - you're the one who let her have that kind of control over you.
Be a man - get back on your feet - there are a lot of good women out there!
2006-07-12 06:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing. You need to put your life back together your self. The last thing in a new relationship that a woman wants is a man that dont have his life togther. A man that knows were he is heading in life is a big turn on for alot of ladys. Now, once you got that down. Not sure if you drink or not. Dont go to a bars to meet woman unless you are looking for sex. You are going to say I am crazy but listen. Try some of the online dating. This way you can get to know someone and they can get to know you before you guys meet. You can find out more with someone on the computer b/c that dont hind alot of stuff. If you were in public then they might be a little shy. Trust me it works. I have done it. Besides, you can tell in the first 30 mins if you want to still talk to them if you ask the right quetions. How many dates last 30 mins? Not many, they last atleast 2 hours and they will cost you atleast $40 just to go eat. You can meet alot of people this way in a short time. If you need any infor please email me. I will be glad to help.
2006-07-12 05:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, stop being a doormat for the one that's been yanking you around for 20+ years. And if she takes off on you to be with other men, it isn't a relationship, it is abuse.
Now, who cares how much money you make, do you think that you are truly worthy of a real, true love? If so, then take care of yourself and the right woman will find you...don't look for it and you will be so surprised when it happens. Trust me...loving and caring for yourself shows others your true worth.
Good luck.
2006-07-12 05:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by auntb629 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...forget about it...learn to not "need" a woman to be happy. Because they are all selfish b****es and you will never find one that actually "cares" about you more than her own personal needs. Trust me on this I have had 4 different long term relationships over 30 years and I have watched my friends lives being sucked out of them by crazy Ho's...and you're just better off without.
Besides whores are cheap and way more honest than any woman who pretends to need you.
2006-07-12 05:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by Perry L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your what everyone fears in life and sitcoms advertise not getting somone around college age or a litle after and being happy starting a family and living together for the rest of your lives is what most peopel want you need to try harder don't get to down or you'll just end up miserable and alone forever which is whatmsot humans fear
2006-07-12 05:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only YOU can put your life together and enjoy life. If you expect someone else to do it for you, then you are doomed to failure.
2006-07-12 05:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-Bay has some great deals. Check there.
2006-07-12 05:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go lookin she will come to u when the time is right
2006-07-12 05:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by sweettexaslady64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of those dating sites, perhaps? i dont know i've never tried them, but who knows, maybe it'll work?
2006-07-12 05:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by ascanio91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look no further l'm right here (lol), try dating agencies
2006-07-12 05:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋