Well. It all started a few weeks ago. There's this hot guy that goes to my school and which I really fancy but I don't know if he's straight, gay or bi. I mean he doesn't look gay but I really wish he was lol, How am I supposed to find out if he is gay or not, if he likes me or not? Is there any way to find out when a person is gay or not? I know this might sound stupid lol but I really like him... What do you all guys do when you fancy someoe and you don't if he is gay.
2006-07-12 05:24:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
turn on your "GAYDAR" or definately follows ---> jpspiderman2003 ideas on how to find out if he is gay or not!!!
2006-07-12 06:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by joy ride 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attempt to be friendly with him and start a conversation with him. Ask what he did last weekend or if he has any plans for the upcoming weekend. Generally people will let you know what events they attended and in the mist of sharing will describe in details who they hung out with in the process. If you never hear anything about a girl then perhaps he might be gay. If the pro-nous (she/ or he) are used a lot; chances are yes he or she is gay.
2006-07-13 05:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's new you could ask him if he had to leave his girlfriend behind, are they having a long distance relationship or anything. If he Say's no, he didn't, then you could ask if he was dating around, or just hadn't found anyone..... then ask who he likes at your school..... eventually it should get him to ask you, and you will have to let him know you are gay, because he probably won't tell you if he is unless he knows if you are...... might take a while, but you'll have to delicately find out, because if he's not you may still want to be friends with him.
2006-07-12 07:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by wonderdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anonymously IM him and hit on him. If he responds positively then you'll know. Also offer a good deal: like say that you want to have a relationship with no strings attached and that you just want to to have benefits. ***** are dumb; blowjobs are blowjobs!
2006-07-12 07:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by Nrassm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an Email, a sms or a letter asking whether he is a gay or not. We can be mediators.
2006-07-12 05:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by gayasia2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just become friends with him, get to know him, (you'll have to do that anyway). Then just casually let him know you are gay , without saying, "I'm GAY" know what I mean. then if he is kewl with it, then he dosen't cars if your gay. then jsut let him tell you on his won. It always work for me. Even if they aren't , They get curious and wanna try it out.LOL. I love it
2006-07-12 08:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by vidalliendo21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become friends with him and earn his trust. Then he will confide in you. Once this happens, bring up the subject of "brokeback Mountain". You will have your answer soon after.
2006-07-12 20:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by ruler of the former free world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he has a girlfriend. And what HER name is. Then youll know.
2006-07-12 05:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by jpspiderman2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop hints about your past relationships, than ask him about his
2006-07-12 05:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋