I usually prefer guys to girls for friends. I have had a horrible year in school with the girls. All 6 other girls ran for parts of student council. (all 4 made it plus two reps) They left me alone to sit with the 7 guys at lunch once or twice a month. (when they found I liked sitting with the guys they invited me to join them at the meetings) I still don't know whether they like me as a friend since when they're around I get ignored and I ignore them.
Do the guys see me as more than a friend or just a friend? Is it wrong that I don't like to be around girls often? Should I try to like them OR just not hang out with them at all and go towards my guy friends in life?
2006-07-12 05:00:17 · 8 answers · asked by Time goes by 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel that guys can be great pals for females.
At least they are not so bitchy... they just don't really care about the petty little stuffs which girls always quarrel/fight about.
Way back in sec sch, I would rather hang out with the boys than girls, but the minus point is that people portray you as if you are antisocial and aloof.. only hang ard with guys.
I experienced it, and hate the girl's bitching, but nevertheless I stick to my principles and that's how i accept life as it is..
2006-07-12 05:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I don't know if any of them see you as more than a friend or not but it seems you found more sincere friends at the guys table than the girls. so no, it's not wrong to not want to be around them as much. I say go back and sit with the boys if they treat you nice. this doesn't mean that all your life you won't find a good friend in a woman so don't count them out. it just means right now it's better for you to make friends with the guys.
2006-07-12 05:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is up to u to decide who u want to hang out with. I'm a girl and sometimes girls are trouble. they leave u when u need them the most, they steal ur boyfriends. they talk to other people behind ur back. i think girls have too much drama in their lives to deal with, but there are things u probably would feel more comfortable telling girls than guys. well i don't know how the guys welcome u to say that they might want something more. well keep ur eyes open and from then u can choose.
2006-07-12 05:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, froim expierance guys tend to be nicer and don't hold grudges but girls understand girl things and you can talk to them about it. so i would talk to the girl and ask them wuts wrong and if ur guys r still friends but hang out with who ever u want
2006-07-12 05:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by Katers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm who knows but i wouldn't really call them "friends"( im talkiing about the girls). im not sure if the guys think of you as more than a friend. if they flirt with you...they probably do. if they talk to you like they would to a guy.then they prob. dont
2006-07-12 05:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by hello411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you on who you hang out with. try to hang out with both. there are things that you can do when hanging out with girls that you cant do when you hang out with guys. girls like to do things that guys dont like shop and other things.
2006-07-12 05:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are going to be mean but see they dont get how inportant it is to be frinds ok i will tell u this dont let friends get in ur way our life
2006-07-12 05:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so. I think you are all right.
2006-07-12 05:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋