She used to be my bestfriend but now is one of the most annoying people I know!
She is dirty leaves food to grow mould in the kitchen, never tidies up after her and her little boy, doesnt clean the bath, leaves skids in the loo, doesnt take rubbish out etc etc!
I want to stay friends just dont wanna live with her anymore! She hates dogs so I got a dog...didnt work!
The landlord wont throw her out, so im stuck... Please help!
2006-07-12 04:57:14 · 13 answers · asked by ME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
pooh in her pillow?
2006-07-12 05:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by stephie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a really difficult one! It's similar to what I had to do once.
You have to be brave, and say you want to sit down and talk about the house.
Calmly and firmly say that you realise that you and she have different expectations regarding how you live in a house (don't say that you are right and she is wrong, just different).
You can say that you don't want to tolerate having to clean up after other people and so you have decided that you want to live apart.
Now, the only problem is if you want to stay there and she does too. If you're happy to move out somewhere else then do it! In fact if she wants to stay put that may be your only option, so just make sure you are positive about it, because moving house can be quite an ordeal
The other thing which will probably crop up will be that she says she will start cleaning. If she proposes that, say you want to draw up a cleaning rota so that everything will be done equally, and so that there is no room for argument. Having said that, in my experience people will do a bit of cleaning and then fall back into their 'comfort zone' again, so I would encourage you to live apart.
Basicaly just be adult and firm about the whole thing and don't get drawn into petty arguments. The guy I had to get rid of tried to put me on a real guilt trip about it (which did work a bit, and that actually annoyed me even more), but I'd rather feel bad about what I did for a week or two than have to live with him for another 6 months.
Hope that helps, good luck!
2006-07-12 05:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could think about moving out...? I know it's a bit drastic but it will save your friendship and most importantly give you peace when you go home! There is nothing worse than dreading coming into your own home, you should be able to relax and chill out.
You can always say you fancy living on your own cos you've never tried it, or you want to move to a different area, etc. I know you probably don't want to hurt her feelings, but it will only make things worse in the long run if you don't.
You never know... it might suit her too! Good luck
2006-07-12 05:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all of you're listed on the employ right it truly is my suggestion have a roommate assembly with only roommates allowed no boyfriends, mum and dad or maybe the land female. in the course of the assembly communicate the nice and comfortable temperature problem with each and every individual putting their 2 cents in. and then in Survivor style placed your problem roommate up for eliminating. Then placed it to a vote. Looser has 20 days to %. and flow out. this manner her chum who lives with you all can't whinge because it may well be a straightforward vote.
2016-12-01 03:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by plunkett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start digging the hole now. Make sure you have a good airtight alibi. Kill the room mate and put her in the hole. Cover the hole and plant a tree over it. Clean up any blood evidence and wait for the police to show up.
2006-07-12 05:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pretend that Satan has possessed you, ask her to give you some blood from her viens. Invite to take part in the ritual sacrifice of your dog and insist that the kiddie watches. Set the date and keep reminding her of it. Keep acting really odd. That'll do the trick.
2006-07-12 05:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a piece of smelly fish hide it somewhere that she cant find in her bedroom and let it take its course she will go mad trying to find the source of the smell.
If nothing else your have a great laugh
2006-07-12 05:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by brettbrtsk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is helping you to pay the rent.... some states require you to file a request for eviction through the court system. If she isn't helping..... toss her stuff to the curb,change the door locks.
2006-07-12 05:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by Beaumeader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would start by telling her to tidy up after herself,tell her your sick and tired of the mess,if that doesnt work the only thing i can think of is for you to find another place.........good luck
2006-07-12 05:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by theblackwitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your time at the residence as ran out its time for you to move on and found some place new to kick it at cuz im tired of dealing with your nasty living ways get the hell out before i go postal on you lol lol
2006-07-12 05:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_enchanted2320032005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get New Boyfriend move in with u! that will sort your problem out!
2006-07-12 05:16:54 · answer #11 · answered by garethellis2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋