So I been with my girl about three months and I really do like her alot, I always knew her friend liked me and a couple of days ago I slept with the friend. She kissed me first. Now I don't know, should I tell my girlfriend or not?
2006-07-12 04:53:31 · 18 answers · asked by Mario D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes..you messed up
be a man and fess up
also her frend is not a friend if she slept with you
and one more thing, do not pull that line she started it, take responsiblity for what you did. You could have stopped it at the kiss
2006-07-12 04:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Enigmatic33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her friend will tell her even if she swears now she would not in a million years...u will see...it’s obvious she doesn't like ur girlfriend and she's probably envies of her because she likes u but u r whit the other girl. this is a way to get it back to her...girls do this often.....and u r obviously not so smart and fell in the trap....like most men. That’s why women say -men are all the same. It takes some brains beside your dick u know....
It’s up to you who will be the firs to tell her. But believe me - sooner better....
2006-07-12 12:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by tinker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young relationships have their ups and downs, and you will experience many more situations. I wouldn't worry about it too much because there are other girls out there that you will hook up with. If you are concerned for the feelings of others then there is hope for you from a social standpoint. Your dishonesty in the relationship can cause her to lose trust and have issues with future boyfriends based on her experience with you. Try not to be the cause for someone's emotional scars. Do what you feel is right and learn from your mistakes.
2006-07-12 12:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mike H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dont matter if she kissed you first.or not..you have control over your parts and you should have kept it in your pants....
now you are just another sorry man who does not know how to respect a woman that you "so called" like a lot..if you CARED and RESPECTED your current girlfriend then you would have NOT slept with her slutty friend.....
the best thing to do is to just MAN UP and tell your girl what you did and with WHOM you did it with....that way she can decide whose azz she wants to beat first......or if she wants to forgive....personally forgiveness is not in my vocabulary much..so im hoping she doesnt stay with a cheater like you....
YOU DONT DESERVE ANY RESPECTFUL FEMALE..I MEAN ITS OBVIOUS YOU THINK WITH YOUR OTHER HEAD...SO GO JOIN THE RANKS OF THE OTHER 2 LEGGED DOGS because thats all you are right now....
and tell me why do men like you recognized that you messed up AFTER THE FACT?!...im not understanding your logic....you should have pushed that trick off you the moment she leaned in for a kiss........
2006-07-12 12:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by outspokenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you did mess up bro. you need to talk to her friend and let her know that you have no intentions on ever sleeping with her again, and that the other nite was a big mistake on both of your parts,and pray like hell your girls friend doesn't go back and tell your girl that's gonna be pretty hard to explain.
2006-07-12 11:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by cwallflower32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was that easy for you to sleep with your gf's friend then you don't really care about your girlfriend. You need to tell your girlfriend cause she'll eventually find out. It's called cheating!
2006-07-12 11:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too selfish to deserve either of these girls. Do the world a favor and go get a vasectomy. They don't hurt that bad (I know), and then you won't have any children around to see their daddy cheating on their mommy in the future.
2006-07-12 11:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by 1,1,2,3,3,4, 5,5,6,6,6, 8,8,8,10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been 3 months and if you hide it you her friend might just KISS you Again.....I'd say something IF You want to continue the relationship....That way she'll stop talking to her so-called friend and you both will have no ties to her and you won't be tempted....and if you still f'up then that's all you!!!!
2006-07-12 11:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you arent ready for a relationship, what if another girl comes on to you, what would you do ?turn her down? no i dont think so.i say you get out of this relationship and let your gilfriend have a chance to find happiness.good luck.
2006-07-12 12:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her and man up. Cause if she finds out from someone else, you're going to be singing soprano.
2006-07-12 12:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋