My bf and I are in a stable relationship for close to 7 years. I am 25 this year. Still focusing on my career at this point of time.
How do I make my relationship work better cos' it seems to become more stagnant these days.
2006-07-12 04:45:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You may subconciously feel bored because he has been your bf for 7 years. You are still young but have been with him for so long, I am sure you guys are in the same old routine and nothing seems new or exciting or worthwhile. Do you still want to stay with him? If so, then suggest new activities to try, Do something with him you wouldn't normally do like maybe go to t a sporting game, have him do something with you that you would like and normally do by yourself like get a massage together go shopping. Go for a weekend away together. Take some fun silly quizzes, ask him dumb questions like what is your favorite song right now or what do you think about a celebrity, etc. Go to a new restauraunt or take a cooking class together. Just do things you normally would not do. In this process, you will be having fun doing something different and he will get to share it with you and it seems it will bring out new things about him that you never knew before and can appreciate about him. Good Luck.
2006-07-12 04:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stagnant Relationship
2017-01-15 03:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing new things are important, try new sexual activites, always dedicate time for something dumb that you'll enjoy to do together like watching a movie every friday night or something like that. It's important to maintain something like a romantic ritual between only you two. But enjoy and lots of luck, let the love grow and mature!
2006-07-12 04:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you have together for 7 yrs. In any relationship, both party need to communicate with each other to spice up their relationship. If there is no or little communication between both of you, any body can just easily destroyed your relationship.
2006-07-12 14:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The both of you need to sit down and talk about what is wrong, what to do to make things better. Both have to agree or compromise on answers and stick to what you plan on doing to fix things.
2006-07-12 04:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by raindance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens alot try spending a little time with family
and mixing things up a bit...
day after day together can get preety old...
2006-07-12 04:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by ray s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bring some spice in your life, go out for a vacation together, do things for each other, make time for each other, plan a romantic night.........if u r tired of being very mushy n romantic, go to some adventurous hill station, go for hiking, trekking, skiing..........so many things to do!
Enjoy!
2006-07-12 04:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New interests,hobbies.Go to a bar yourself,all dressed sexy,(beforehand telling him to meet you there).Act like you havent met before.do all the flirting,have a few drinks,and say,would you like to come home with me?
2006-07-12 04:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um-could be time for a new relationship--a person can not take full responsibility for making a relationship fresh and exciting!
2006-07-12 04:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY TO INCORPORATE SOME NEW FUN ACTIVITIES IN YOUR SCHEDULE, AND SOME NEW ROMANTIC THINGS, THINGS OUT OF YOUR NORM.
2006-07-12 04:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋