why the love is so complicated?

Answer 1

I know exactly how you feel. There are so many answers to that question, So i just going to say because you have to work for everything you want to keep. Some ppl don't like to work soooo hard!!!! Don't worry though, because every journey has smooth sailing were you could just enjoy the ride (temporarily)

Answer 2

This is a question that has baffled people for a long time and I being no authority on the subject (as if anyone is) can only speculate. However, first it must be understood that love is an emotion and as such can have no variations. The feeling of love is generally the same for all things, you love your cat, or your Dad or anything else. It is only the situation or social climate that governs your actions. Where you live and how you grew up also dictates how, when and for whom you feel love. The complications arise when we fall in love with someone and immediately set about to change them to fit some sort of pattern we have in our head. I cannot nor will I say that this is not truly love, however love should at all times be unconditional. Acceptance of anothers flaws no matter how divers or different from our own and still feeling love for them, is to my mind true love. Being human however, we allow others to cloud our perceptions with words, opinions or just plain bigotry. Love is very personal, and as such cannot be pinned down to this way or that way. Each person must decide for themselves to complicate matters but placing undue, unjust and sometimes unfair stipulations on the love we give. Because of this we end up creating resentments, and soon begin to question our love. When that happens the love is no longer viable because the conditions have not been met, when there should have been no conditions at all.

Answer 3

OK,this is going to sound Corny to you,but listen up..The main rule for living a life that's,not so full of these kind of mind game's are as follows...God is not the author of CONFUSION...in other words,if you are having trouble figuring out something,it's coming from the wrong side of the tracks! Just think about it.I hope it click's in your head..thing's that are good are not CONFUSING! Get it??

Answer 4

dont listen to dumbasses like the above people they all smoke pot and drink beer. instead listen to me, love is simple, you scarifice yourself for another, thats the ultimate love, jesus did that. now as for relationship love in order to be on the "same page" as they say, you need to do alot of different **** together, like travel the world together, climb a mountain, goto movies, shoot guns, beat old people, play video games, masterbate each other, that way you are on the same page, and can look back at it. duh. and disclosure works too, do it slowly, so they build up a history of your past mixed with things you do in the present then you can easyly perdict how you'll act in the future. and anyone who smokes anything, or drinks any alcohol, or abuses perscription drugs and does illegal drugs, know this, your days are numbered, cause i'm coming for you.

Answer 5

love is not complicated. only people. its very easy to love but the fact that people have endless excuses and unmade decisions make or made it complicated.

Answer 6

I have heard all the corny advice and here are a few that stuck with me.

Its not worth it if you dont have to fight for it.

You have to go through all the bad so that when the good comes you really appreciate it.

Answer 7

because of the pain. it hurts so bad deep down inside that it makes you wish you never fell in love. After that first feeling you don't want to feel that pain again so you think about breaking up with that person depending on what she did to hurt you but you don't want to because you in love so now you trying to figure out what to do because you want to stay with that person but you don't want her to hurt you like that again, its just too much to handle. and you want to talk to somebody it but not just anybody to get some advise but you can't so you try to handle it yourself, then you do something wrong and then you break up and that's not what you wanted. you wanted to talk but its too late. now you wish you had super powers so you can rewind time and start over but you don't have super powers so everything's messed up and then when you try to get back with her and she won't talk to you, now you depressed and sad and mad and you caint get her off your mind......ITS A TERRIBLE FEELING.....

Answer 8

It just is. It's hard for any two people to always get along and be on the same page, no matter how compatible they are.

Answer 9

it is part & parcel of our daily life & its envirnoment & the peoples upbringing & education.always look at things in a more simpler way so that you will not being tight down unnecessarily.Just relax & calm at all times.

Answer 10

Cos when you actually fall in love, its the greatest feeling