My best friend for 15 years just told me she has a another frineds birthday to go to instead of mine! I have been planning this B-day thing for 2 months now and really wantedher to be there... She has been telling me she was coming for the longest time! I think it what is upsetting me the most is that it was so easy to blow me off for somone else....and that she telle me 4 days before the day...What would you do or say????
2006-07-12 04:28:53 · 18 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ur friend is a f-u-k-i-n-g b-i-t-c-h!! shes obviously not one of ur best friends if she just blows u off for sumone else....fogetabouther
2006-07-12 09:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by kole 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that happened to me, I would consider the following options:
Its probably about a boy
She has grown out of you
She just found something that she would rather do.... no big deal
Your are not her only best friend
I would suggest that you look at it from her point of view before you assume that she is the worst bff ever. If you are really best friends, then you should tell her how you feel about it, then look past it. I know its easier said then done but you should give it a try. Good luck !!!!
2006-07-12 11:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by AgentQT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its gonna be your birthday don't her get u upset. Talk to her though and tell how that made u feel. Its her decision to make. Just go all out and make it the best birthday ever for urself. With or without her have the time of ur life.
2006-07-12 11:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by ♫♪♥mï®♥♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My point of view is,if she's really my best friend.She sure will not treat me like this.Even though,she got another birthday appointment to attend.She also can come to meet me and celebrate with me after she meet with her friend.I will suggest to her this way,and the final decision is up her ,see whether if she willing to rush for two person b'day celebration or not?
I definitely will be very sad,if she really can't make it and celebrate with me.But, I won't angry or blame her.cause, I will always bear in mind this 15 yrs best friend relationship is not easy to find again!and I will try to treasure it....
2006-07-12 11:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her something kind of like that hapened to me and I ignored it and her. It turned out really bad and we aren't friends any more.... Now I wish that I would have talked to her and worked things out....
It never hurts to try & being quiet won't help.....don't act mad just have a mature conversation about it I'm 80% sure it'll work out.
She might be able to go to both parties or It might be a family thing or she could be planning a surprise or something special to do with just you b/c this sounds a little wierd and quick to just be another friends party........
2006-07-12 11:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by heart2love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she is being selfish. If you knew the otehr friend, you could maybe have planned to celebrate the two birthdays together in one party. Maybe you still could. If not, maybe you could reschedule your party to a later date of the month. Those are what I'd consider doing. ALthough if it's a matter of just one less friend coming, I think, I' d go ahead with my party, anyway. You could also celebrate it at your church, right after sunday school, with your church friends.
2006-07-12 12:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have our good friends. Who is this "other party". Maybe it is important for her to be there, maybe it is a special birthday, tell her how you feel, but my don't make her feel guilty. Do you really want someone at your party who did not want to be there in the first place?
2006-07-12 11:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by rera1397 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is blowing you off for another you may not be her best friend. And you should just be confident in yourself and not let it be your lose but let it be hers.
2006-07-12 11:34:07 · answer #8 · answered by wsonBrat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to go fuuck herself, and that you are going to find new friends who actually give two shits and stick about you, and friends are a dime a dozen, only a few remain loyal. others use you for their own gains and eave you to roit like corpses. this is the real world it back stabs you, beats you when your down, and kills you. dont let it do it. biatch
2006-07-12 11:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing. She is the one making the choice to miss out on your fun. It's her loss. Don't let it ruin your special day.
2006-07-12 11:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by Cyn6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume that I'm now in the market for a new best friend.
2006-07-12 11:31:10 · answer #11 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋