People seem to have a hard time understanding what true romantic love really is. Why are they so confused with "love" and "sex" and could that have something to do with our ultra high divorce rate in our country?
2006-07-12 02:52:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
For people who will most likely misunderstand my question:
You would not marry someone you didn't want to have sex with. --or at least you shouldn't anyway, otherwise that would be a relationship of convenience.
You love your children and your brother and parents as well....so what distinguishes "true" love and "romance"?
2006-07-12 02:54:23 · update #1
I wish someone would actually read and understand what I am trying to say
2006-07-12 03:18:30 · update #2
well you are right, but sometimes it cant really matter that much. eg i saw this handsome man married to a dwarf, and not just a dwarf she was extremely short the height of a two years old, on top of that she dint have hands,(arms), and will you say this hot handsome man wanted to have sex with her?? no, he loved her so much and it didnt matter if she will be able to satisfy him sexually or not.i think love comes first sex later.
i personally married my husband who at that time was very fat and could not perform sex properly, but i loved him and married him. now because of the feeling of being loved he worked so hard that he redused i couldnt believe it.and we are happy.
2006-07-12 03:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so modern! True love shouldn't be about sex, although it can be important, that part comes in when children are wanted. I know of too many people that stay married without sex because of injury, illness, or lack of interest. Why would they do that?
2006-07-12 03:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mr.Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely can have a romantic,loving relationship without it being sexual.A lot of people accept and confuse sex for truly being in love.They go into a relationship with blinders on,hoping that this could be IT!!People settle for less than they should when it comes to Loving Relationships.You have to be comfortable with yourself before you can love another or be lovable.Nobody wants to be lonely............
2006-07-12 03:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by 2BaD4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love didnot same with sex. Love is about feeling that we feel in our soul, sex is about something we do with someone. If you feel that you love somebody, and somebody really love you very much, "sex" was not a first priority, but sex must do, after married of course. And about romance, "romance" have a close relationship with love. Someone can do some romance only if she or he love other. If only do sex without love, there is no romance. "Love" is only from our heart not from sex
2006-07-12 03:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by HENRYS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what your trying to say is, the ultimate expression of romantic love is in the action of "making love."To truly show someone how much you love them is in the act of sexual intercourse.It shows them you truly accept them as a person and that you trust them at your most vulnerable.
I find to many people treat sex as a way to satisfy themselves instead of a way to express love of another.
2006-07-12 06:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by timelord1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are talking about love and sex
not marrige... marrige is suppose to be unconditional..where sex
has certain conditions..... if you know what i mean
it is one expression of love..out of many expressions..
2006-07-12 03:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by ray s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋