Okay, here's the deal. I'm a guy in my early twenties. I've never been in a relationship before (with a girl), although I have gone out with them a few times to dinners, movies, what have you, although it was just for fun, not dating dating. I've never been in a relationship with a guy before. I love to look at men who work-out, their chiseled body and abs, and men in underwear. However, I think having sex with a guy, or a naked guy, is gross. There are certain women who arouse me, a few movie stars, but women in lingerie or models in Maxims and Playboy really don't do me anything. Am I gay?
2006-07-12 02:46:45 · 22 answers · asked by euges116 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not necessarily. I think you need to be more pro-active to women and start forming relationships. Not really being a player but get out there and have fun. If you tell a woman that you are not experienced and would love a teacher, you are going to have more teachers than you want. You are just young, nothing wrong with that. Admiring beautiful bodies does not make one gay. I love to look at beautiful woman, but I'm not a lesbian, tried it, but not for me.
2006-07-12 02:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think you could probably go either way. What is your self-image like? Do you think of yourself as a man, as a worthy potential husband? Or are you uncomfortable with your masculinity? When you look at chiseled men, are you thinking "If only I had that that body, women would be attracted to me"? If so, working through those issues with a therapist may boost your interest in women. Your feelings toward men may be a type of jealousy, where you want what they have and so you are attracted to them. This obviously is not healthy.
The more you give into gay things, the more attracted to men you will feel. If you don't want to be gay, avoid such things.
2006-07-12 03:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK..first of all...you are asking complete strangers to make a life altering decision for you based on about 100 words!!! Hello!! Reality check here.
From what you have written, you appear completely heterosexual. We dont know what area of the country you live in...we dont know if you are good looking or not....
Just because you havent dated seriously doesnt mean you are gay. You could have some serious physical issues...or phsycological issues. We dont know!
Not being attracted to slutty women is a good thing! Maybe you need some type of relationship or knowledge of who they are as a person to be attracted to them.
I suggest relaxing about the whole issue and getting involved in something where you are working with women...volunteer or something. It sounds like once you develop friendships you will start developing attraction.
Good luck to you!
2006-07-12 02:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by Am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havent been with a girl that dosent mean your gay.Maybe you just havent met one you are attracted to yet.These guys you check out may be a problem though guys usually dont check out guys in there underwear unless they are gay. You think having sex with them is gross though. I think you might be just by that and your mind is refusing it. How does your family feel about homosexuality? If they disregard it or hate gay people you may have had that smashed into your brain and are scared to admit that yes you are gay.
2006-07-12 03:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is do u get aroused by men?
There r plenty of woman that look good to me,,I also check them out but their not a turn on,,,,get it. Try fantasizing about it and if it works out for u yep ur gay.
2006-07-12 02:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even waste ur time by thinking like that...Bcoz when u nourish such thoughts soon they will become part of U...It's time to erase from ur mind if U dont want to...In this world we have just two sex either male or female not a male-female(that's weird don't U think so?)
2006-07-12 02:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by benird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just be picky. Being in this generation, with the media having such an influence on us, you might just want a "perfect" woman. And if you don't like half-naked models, you might just be turned off by sex just being thrown in your face.
2006-07-12 02:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by not2nite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear deep down inside i think you know the answer to this but the words you used "chiseled body and men in underwear" HELLO buddy something is WRONG you don't need me to tell you if your gay or not deep down inside you know the truth
2006-07-12 02:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not dude ask out a hot girl the only reason you look at muscle guys is ur jealous of them. ask out a ho girl dude and get married have kids u know seriously get on with ur life UR NOT GAY.
2006-07-12 02:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by lemonada dada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO because you said having sex with the man is gross.
2006-07-12 02:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by ..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋