If it was really affecting my quality of life and my happiness then yes i would
2006-07-12 02:47:50
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answered by happyflamepepper 4
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First off, how old are you? If you are still quite young then you need to know that some large noses are really quite attractive, and you may grow into that nose someday. It can give you a distinguished, attractive look.
Bullies are encouraged by fear. If you can learn to accept yourself, nose and not fear them they will quit.
It depends though, on whether the bullying is verbal or physical. If it's verbal, then you can disarm them by laughing and agreeing with them -- Yeah, it is pretty big, isn't it. Make a joke about yourself, you take away their ammunition.
If the bullying is physical then it has to be stopped immediately.
You must go to your parents, your counselor, your dean. And they must see to it that you are not put in a position where the bullies can get at you. If they continue take action against them through the police, if necessary.
But back to your nose. These people are trying to make you feel that large noses make you inferior. They are using you to build themselves up in their own eyes by trying to tear you down. That is the action of a coward.
They have made you feel your nose is a bad thing. And they have made you self conscious about a part of your body that is always visible. What they have done is cruiel as well as cowardly, and in all probability you have a very nice nose.
I tend to like bigger noses on men, myself.
I mean look at Gerard Depardieux, the actor. He's not conventionally handsome at all, and he has a big nose, but he's got sex appeal. There is something very attractive about him.
A lot of distinguished political types have those large classical noses, and that gives a man a look of power.
See if you can get some help from someone on the spot to coach you through with the bullies, and to help you look at yourself more objectively.
Do you know how many things are more important about you than your nose? And a big nose won't stop you succeeding at anything you set your mind, heart, and energies toward in your life.
2006-07-12 10:05:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Would not have a nose job because I feel bullied. As long as my nose is doing a good job of serving the primary purpose it was created for I would not change it. Bullies are the ones with the problem not me with the big nose. Never change who you are to please somebody else because you can never satisfy everyone {really where do you start!}.
2006-07-12 10:04:33
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answered by Storm 3
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It's not the nose, it's the fact that you let people upset you. If your nose isn't bothering you, then you should learn to deal with bullies. If you didn't have a big nose, they would think of something else to bully you about. You need to do something to show them that bullying you isn't worth the hassle it brings them.
2006-07-12 09:51:55
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answered by xenobyte72 5
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if i could afford it and wanted them to feel bad yes i would
some people dont understand how it feels to have a defect for life and be teased about it. I dont have any but I know some people that were teased about this or the other and you would do anything to change it. its not that you hate yourself it just get the scrutinising people off your back.
but also think about this, if you nose now looks good after sugery you would like to change your lips, then you ears, then your chin then you end up like MJ all fake and unhappy. you wont lead a normal life
so if you can bare it just say to these people to hell with you and live your life the best way you know how.
2006-07-12 09:53:09
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answered by Anonymous
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Only if the nose bothered ME. What others think isn't an issue...it's not their nose...I'm the one who has to look at my reflection in the mirror each day...if there's something about me that I don't like, then I may change it...but it's because *I* am not happy with it, not because of what anyone else says...
2006-07-12 09:49:26
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answered by . 7
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They are not bullying you cause of your nose. You have to play the victim to be a victim. You will never be happy with your nose if you get it done for other people. Only get it done if you want it for yourself.
Look at Owen Wilson and Dan Akroyd they both have fugly noses but people love them.
2006-07-12 09:50:31
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answered by gnomes31 5
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I don't really nose what I would do (oops, sorry)
perhaps if you took a look at your appearance, I'm not saying you need to look at your appearance, I am saying you may be able to adjust your hair style to take the emphasis off your hooter, or some other adjustment, maybe face make up, I don't know anything about that I'm afraid, but I know that you can use shading on your face like shadow stuff, and also to bring your cheekbones forward with make up. that sort of thing.
with some changes I BET you would look really cool.
by the way I met my neighbour without her make up lately and I didn't know who she was, as I've never seen her without make up, and I didn't realise that fact until I met her without it.
that shows how much of a change makeup can make.
wishing you the best.
2006-07-12 09:54:06
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes I'd have a nose job, BUT only if it was for your own confidence, not for the benefit of anyone else. Everyone is born differently, so dont let anyone push you into it, do it only for yourself.
2006-07-12 09:52:48
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answered by Anonymous
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NO, why yield to attempts of Normalization? Why should small noses be the norm, the ideal format ? I would not change it one bit, simply because I do not want to be like every other person or everyone else. Be proud of being you!!
2006-07-13 10:01:00
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answered by Tula T 2
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2006-07-13 04:13:06
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answered by Anonymous
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