My love said loves me,asked me to marry while being drunk(2times)My question is do i take it as truth or not since my love was drunk?If yes explain & if no explain.Best answer 10points.
2006-07-12 02:35:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When hes drunk if he says he loves u then he must have feelings for u maybe hes nervous or hes scared of commitment talk to him when hes sober for ur answer
2006-07-14 05:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Never take what a drunk says as truth. Ask yourself why he doesn't tell you that he loves you and wants to marry you while he is sober. He probably does love you but is just too scared of commitment to actually make one.
2006-07-12 10:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by shywoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple.don't trust a word a person says when their drunk.......when they r at the right frame of mind.......slowly pop up the question about what they said. Be careful sometimes ppl are scared of rejection n might not be truthful.......So if you know him well enough n you feel he is the right man for you, go for it make him knw what are your feelings too. Don hold back cos this could be your only chance of getting your love. Trust your heart.
2006-07-12 09:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi not actually answering this for the 10pts but through experience id say your partner was asking you to marry him whether he was drunk or not. Most people whilst they are drunk actually reveal their true feelings if they cant express them when they are sober. Is he so confronting about personal issues when he is sober?
2006-07-12 09:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would confront this issue while being sober. people say strange things while being drunk, but this may be a sign that he is thinking about it, but is just too scared to ask at the right time. i would not take it as the 100% truth, but expect it eventually.
2006-07-12 09:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by MARIA G. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything a drunk says doesn't count in my book. See if you can get them to say it again while sober. Basing something on an inebriated feeling is no way to start a life together!
2006-07-12 09:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by Diesel Weasel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to marry someone if they have to get drunk before he can propose. On the other hand maybe it is his true desire to marry you. You need to have a very serious conversation while sober!
2006-07-12 09:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Ahab 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...don't take anything a drunk says as truth. They are not responsible for their own behavior when they are poluted. Tell him while he is sober what he said, and ask if he meant it. He'll probably not even remember he said it twice.
2006-07-12 09:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could say to yourself that while drunk, a person shares their true feelings (that would be your heart talking.) Or you could say that while drunk a person doesn't carefully weigh their thoughts and words and might do or say anything (that would be your brain talking.) I suggest you broach the subject with him while he's sober and see what he says then.
2006-07-12 09:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by hiddenhotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been proposed to numerous times by my Steve. But, only when he has been drinking. It hasn't happened and I won't marry a man who has to have alcohol in his system to ask something so meaningful. I think the world of him. I do love him but, I'm worth more than that. You're worth more!!! Don't settle.
2006-07-12 09:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋