I'm a marketing consultant as well as a freelance events organizer so you can say that it's practically in my blood to take care of things, organize this and that etc...anyways, the story is...my boyfriend's friends have planned to go on a trip to a nearby island, fortunately I have a house there and I offered to plan everything for them. Of course everyone knows how it is between friends to get answers on time, who's going who's not bla bla bla...well one of his friends called (my boyfriend) and was asking questions like this and that and my boyfriend was like, I dunno, I dunno...so that frustrated me coz' at least he should have remembered what the intinerary said, anyways I got upset that he couldn't remember thus making his friend like 'what the hell?'...and so my voice sort of got louder and louder in frustration to the point where his friend could hear...so he thought that I was blowing my mind off at him for his repetative questions...now, the whole gang knows. I'm wrong right?
2006-07-12 02:21:32 · 6 answers · asked by Tiny Bing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had to cut the story short coz' of the limited space but the thing is...I feel bad for having such a short fuse but my friend said that it's understandable...right now I really don't know what's what and what is the right thing for me to do etc...I know it sounds like a stupid kids thing but this is really making me feel terrible.
2006-07-12 02:24:03 · update #1
Wow... seems like a simple communication... and that you may want to a bit of a vacation to relax.
Simply call the friend and explain that your bf didn't have the itinerary with him and that you have everything worked out.
And then book a weekend in the tropics.
2006-07-12 02:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call all the friends and apologize for the behavior and tell them you were just stressed out cause you want everyone to have a good time. Ask if there is anything special they want to add to the plans and get some input. Maybe they feel left out. Print up the activity agenda and send it out and ask for suggestions. Get yourself off of the hook or you'll be spending this weekend alone. An apology always takes a mature spirit and most people will forgive and forget. Don't fret and don't expect perfection. Let it go, Lewie. Just enjoy .....
2006-07-12 02:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them plan their own trip. Tell your BF that you are sorry for yelling at him and that you were frustrated. It is not that big of a deal, he will probably kiss you and say it's okay. Don't let it fester though coz it could lead to other problems
2006-07-12 02:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is waaay too long 4 me to answer can't u make a long story u need to use some sort of knowledge or otherwise don't ask u idiot.
2006-07-12 02:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i guess am sorry for the whole thing.but what u can do is go infront of all ur bf's buddies and just apologise.just be courageous.
2006-07-12 02:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by topcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Let it be." - Lennon and McCartney
2006-07-12 02:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋