Man im in love with is family friends son(families friends for decades from grandparents).We know eachother 5yrs,2yrs in love.He feels same way,he calls me on phone saying he loves me,wants to marry me BUT hes drunk.I know he gets drunk calls me since he feels he can tell me his feelings.Now does it mean he really loves me,should i talk to him telling him things hes told me or should i leave until he says same to me when sober.Since i dont want to bring it up if he doesnt remember or let it ruin our friendship.I love him he loves me.
2006-07-12 02:14:52 · 13 answers · asked by aadrpdrs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
a game of truth or dare when hes sober then ask him so it doesnt seem like u shouldnt ask him or if he doesnt remember it would be embarrassing then a kiss or two wouldnt hurt after he says he loves u:-)
2006-07-12 02:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yep and alcohol would also make you feel feeling that you do not have for people. Girl would have sex with anyone drunk, that she has never seen before. And it also can make you tell people you love them only because they are feeling reeealllll good. No I don't not trust what a drunk says. Go up to him and ask him sober. I am serious ask him sober.
2006-07-12 02:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girsl above are right.. when ppl are drunk they usually say the truth and what they cant say when they are sober..
I think he's waiting for you to make a move and show u r interested in him.. ask him to do something together like go to the movies and see how he acts throughout the evening.. show him that you like him and wait for him to say something.. if you see he is really interested but he's shy to say it then just make the first move to break the ice..
2006-07-12 02:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he truly love you bring up what he say when drunk will not hurt the relationship but i do not think that he really is in love with you. what is the relationship like when he is not drunk you are the only one saying i love you .if he does love you he would say it drunk or not consider are you just a butty call
2006-07-12 02:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by bigdaddyleon2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is drunk, then he has a drinking problem. He can only think of himself. Alcoholics are very selfish people. If you start a relationship with him, I strongly suggest that he go to AA and you go to Al Anon.
2006-07-12 02:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by Hope A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes bring it up! But how often does he drink, you don't want a total drunk for a lover. Unless that is what you like.
2006-07-12 02:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Racy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk DOESN'T say what sober says. Sober says what sober says. Drunk says what drunk says. Sometimes sober says what drunk says. But never trust that what drunk says is sober thought.
2006-07-12 02:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, do not walk, RUN from this guy. If you can't rely on him to say (and, by implication, do) what he should do when he's sober, you sure as h___ can't rely on him to do it when he's drunk. And you probably can't rely on him to be sober. Think about where that leaves YOU.
2006-07-12 02:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say that the truth comes out when you are drunk
2006-07-12 02:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask himif he remembers talking to u when he was drunk who knows he might say yes or he might say no....... Than if he says yes ask him if he ment it...... if he says no then make ti into a joke and be like "u were telling me u loved me" blah blah blah....... and see what he says
2006-07-12 02:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋