i am wondering what girls in particularly are thinking when a day or two after the marriage if not the same day her new husband tells her to spread her legs and give him what she kept for him...considering that she knows the guy from a few meetings , maybe her family and his are freinds.
2006-07-12 02:09:10 · 3 answers · asked by Raymond 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Weird Question
Arranged marriages are simply unions of convenience the brides are supposed look at the sexual part of the marriage as a wifely duty (if they happen to enjoy it that just an added bonus I guess).
2006-07-12 02:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by rf186 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Traditionally in my religion arranged marriages were acceptable and basically the only way people got married, however with changing times things have changed. But, for some arranged marriages even to this day are acceptable. I'm not exactly sure what a girl is suppose to think when the guy demands his marital rights. But what she does know is that this is her husband, the man she's married to and will spend the rest of her life with and he's her protector. I've known lots of people that have been married by arrangement and most of those marriages have lasted. My parents got married like that and they've been married almost 24 years. What gave you the idea that its legalised prostitution. Just because people have certain traditions and you might have a different take on things doesn't mean thats its bad. You need to keep an open mind. Arranged marriages have lasted much longer than the so called love marriages of modern things. Its a well known fact in my country. Long ago people were thought that marriage had to be a one time thing, now we have the option of seperation or divorce.
2006-07-12 09:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not use the lens of your culture to look into the culture of others.
Many such arranged marriage remain faithful to each other for a long time. How can you use such a sweeping statement as Prositution!
If my wife is arranged, I will be very offended! Do you mean the husband of the arranged marriage allow other man to sleep with his wife for money?
2006-07-12 09:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Melvin C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how he feels when she tells him to get it up!
Okay, is western marriage just serial monogamy?
Really, arranged marriages have a lower divorce rate than "love" marriages. But is it out of necessity?
Let's face it, only men benefit from marriage. That's why they invented it.
Glass houses, throw stones.....
2006-07-12 09:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋