why is it so hard for women to find men that are senseitive,caring,and good looking?

Question

apart from the fact that those men already have boy friends

Answer 1

For the same reason that it is hard to find sensitive ,caring, good looking women.

Answer 2

You're most likely talking about women who were brought up in abusive homes, and they think that those men's behaviors are normal, and when they start out in their love lives more times than not, they don't know any better. They think that they are so inadequate and their sense of self-worth was taken away long before they had a chance to develop it, they tend to think that they're lucky to have a man at all and that such a man is better than no man at all. Unfortunately, most of the abusive men, feed that further into them, continuing with what started at home.

It is way too imbedded that even therapy doesn't always resolve it, and even if you educate yourself on abuse or what it does, most times you may gain a conscious knowledge that might help you, but it is nearly impossible to reach the subconscious mind. Those who have triumphed have been few and far between.

You CAN recover, but it takes daily work and part of you never will.

Answer 3

There are a lot of good answers on this posting, but the real question you should ask yourself and answer honestly is "what is it that you REALLY want in and out of a relationship"? That means you have to look at yourself (honestly) to view your frailties and weaknesses to see how you impact a potential relationship. That way, you aren't projecting qualities on the men you meet and may date because they "seem" to fit or disqualifying those men that appear to NOT have the qualities you are seeking.

Now, speaking non-objectively, the post-feminist era has created this mythical "Superman" that is all things mental, physical, emotional and spiritual that many women REQUIRE us guys to live up to immediately. So, you may have met and dissed a guy who had many of the qualities you seek but may have been a little weak in on of the criteria. Think about it!!

Answer 4

What yer looking for is a proper gentleman. Sadly, the majority of these died out with the introduction of the computer into society, as it warps the minds of the poor little children at such an early age.

There are still a couple out there. Keep looking, and you'll find the right guy.

Answer 5

all sensitive, caring and good looking men are not gay.

there is some culture shock when women go to find the kind of guys they watch on cable or WB, etc. my daughter wants to marry Orlando Bloom or another boy who looks just like him. i've been nice to her about this, but i'm pretty sure it won't happen.

the majority of men fart, scratch, burp, etc. and other bad habits when in high school and college and it's a transition to undergo when meeting a woman and getting married.

it's a big change.

i think the push nowadays is for men to not act like MEN (of the past) but be a bit more of the qualities you mentioned before.

From Jim Belushi to the new generation...it's a change.

Answer 6

My husband IS this man, he is not gay ^_~
trust me on this one honey.

I think that women don't find it because
the three rarely occur together. Many really
good looking guys ( btw most gay guys are kinda
wussy looking in my opinion ) can be pompous
as are certain good looking women. And any
mediocre person can fit into this category as
well because you can always enhance mediocrity
and make it WOW!

Youd be suprised how you can take an average
man and spruce him up a bit. Same goes for
girls.

Answer 7

Because good looking men are either gay, or realize that they don't HAVE to be sensitive and caring. Women will fall all over them anyway. Sensitive and caring men usually end up being the average to less than average "friend" that they whine to after Mr. Good-Looking uses them and looses them.

Answer 8

LOL! Because, the sensitive, and caring men are not interested in women...sadly, we are stuck with the macho,self centered dips that just want a piece of ***

Answer 9

Lower your standards on outer beauty, and you will find a treasure trove of wonderful men that aren't already taken, who will worship the woman who accepts them. Look for kind eyes. That's what I did, and my husband is a beautiful person, who worships me, loved me through 2 pregnancys ( I was huge for both of them) and still loves me stretch marks, pudgy belly, big bottom and all.

Answer 10

We're all taken. Used to wonder the same thing about women until I found my prize. Keep looking. Patience and persistence will win every time.