my friend is an indian staying at chennai. shes got admission into an eng coll. & she is doin her 2yr.she is in love with a guy.but her family is a very orthodox & her parents hated love marriage. they strongly believe arranged marriage.now the problem is she loves this guy verymuch & he is also an engineer & he has got selected in the campus interview & he would be well enough to lead a well settled life with her if she marries him.hey both r in love 4 abt 7 yrs.
so she is afraid of telling her parents cos they hav warned her before that if she would fall in love then the father will either kill her r do suicide.so she is really upset & she couldnt concenterate on her studies pls........help
2006-07-12 02:08:19 · 6 answers · asked by priya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let the boy's parents approach the girl's parents with a marriage proposal. Or, let a marriage broker do this. If the girl and the boy belong to the same religion, caste, etc. this may work out.
The girl's parents should not come to know that the boy is in love with the girl. They can say that the boy has happened to see her some where and that he has taken a liking for her.
If the boy satisfies the above condition (same religion etc) and is otherwise eligible the girl's parents should have no objection.
This worked in the case of my niece.
I wish all the best for the girl.
PS: Why was this question addressed only to people from Chennai?
2006-07-12 02:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Inquisitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sir interior the first position,please let us know your workplace at Chennai. OMR is on the bright South-critical end of Chennai and is an upcoming area.yet when your workplace is in critical or North Chennai,commuting to OMR can be a significant complication. OMR as a residential aspects is yet to achieve acceptanace because it really is in a unmarried nook of the city. also let us know if you're planning to flow in or it really is barely for funding.
2016-12-10 08:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a mess. These parents are very old fashioned. He needs to prove himself to them. Maybe ask for permission to see her or something. The parents need to feel in control. I know it is hard to break free from parents and she doesn't want something drastic to happen. But, if they want her to be happy they need to see him in a different light. She may have to move away. She needs to weigh everything. What do they get from an arranged marriage anyway? Is the boyfriend indian too? Good luck.
2006-07-12 02:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-12 02:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by syedskp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so make this love marriage to arranged marriage.
2006-07-12 02:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a bollywood movie
2006-07-12 02:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by mndckl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋