I really like this guy and we have been flirtin alot on msn. But recenltly my mate's mate told her to tell me not to get involed with him cause he's a player. And now i dunno what to do or think. Shall i just leave it with him and keep it going and find out for myself?
2006-07-12 01:57:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-07-17 20:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him better first on a "friend" level. Don't get into the physical parts until you know he's for real. If he really does like you he'll stick around to find out what you're all about and if he doen't chances are he was a player and only in it for the game. If he asks you why you guys can't move forward just tell him that you're sick of playing games with people and you're not letting yourself move into a pointless relationship without knowing who the person is first. Usually sweet talkers are bad news so don't let his "C'mon baby"s influence you just because you like him. Take your friend's concern into consideration.. obviously she knows something you don't. Hope things turn out for the best!
2006-07-12 02:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by moonshadow385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even the best player can fall in love. Shall i give u an example? Me!:). My boyfriend was a "bad boy".And now, he is changed.I'm with him for almost two years.If u really think he's a player,u should ply with him too:). Hope i helped u;;)
2006-07-12 02:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by anca m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a bad bad feeling about someone you should ask about their past and only you know if they change.Be careful whom you go out with because people you meet online are liars,losers,freaks and perverts.
2006-07-12 02:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. just be a little more cautious with him until you know whether or not he's a player. don't always believe what others tell you.
2006-07-12 02:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by cyber_music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably a player - move along
2006-07-12 01:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to find out yourself
get to know the person
2006-07-12 02:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop communicating with him for awhile...And will see how serious he's with U...
2006-07-12 02:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by benird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think a player
2006-07-12 02:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU GUYS SHOULD KEEP TALKIN, AND IF YOU REALLY LIKE HIM, GO FOR IT, BUT IF YOU REALLY TRUST YOUR FRIENDS THEN YOU'LL KNOW WHATS BEST...GOOD LUCK
2006-07-12 02:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋