What would you do if??

Question

You had the key to the whores house that your partner had an affair with???

Dont ask me how i got it but i have, do i leave it alone or do something??

He is with me we are trying to work through it but she came to my house and attacked me in front of my child. Thats why i want to do something

Answer 1

Don't do anything! You would probably end up in jail and you have stooped to her level. Revenge never achieves anything, just sit back and get on with life and wait for Karma to do its thing. Its SO much better, trust me!

Answer 2

i would have to do something evil like turn on a hose and put it through the bedroom window, and walk away. But, it would get me arrested, i bet. Yah, make a copy and keep it just in case you think of something you wouldn't get in trouble for. If you know where she lives, stuff her mailbox with pictures of you and your partner together with a note saying we need to talk. If she's a nice person who was also deceived by your partner, don't do anything. If she has a nasty attitude and knew that you and your partner were together when the affair took place, and rubs it in your face, take your revenge as you see fit (non-lethal, of course)
I just read the additional part you just added. TAKE THE B**** DOWN. KICK HER BUTT SOMEHOW. What did your partner do when that happened?

Answer 3

Heres a couple of ideas
buy couple of mices an put them on her pantry.
Use her toothbrush to clean the toilet and then put it back.
Get some meat from the fridge and hide it in a vase or a plant . It will stink the crap out of her house.
Put some bleach on the washing machine, ypu can also loosen up the hose, it will cause some serious damage if she doesnt find it soon.
Get some ants from outside( use a shovel and a plastic baggie) dump them on a plant and sprinkle some sugar on the floor
Pee on her carpet right next to her bed
loosen up the shower head so it comes off when she turns it on.
Transfer her calls to a porn shop. Call all your friends in germany from her phone.

You can have so much fun , just make sure you go in when nobody sees you, and make sure shell be out a while.
Have fun

Answer 4

If she came to your house and attacked you in front of your children, you need to file a police report, bring her up on assault charges and get a restraining order to keep her away from you and especially your children. Your number one priority is to protect your children.....PERIOD.

Lose the key to her house NOW. Don't lower yourself to her level and you MUST NOT incite her to take revenge on something you did. If she has the ability to attack you in your own home once I daresay she would happily do it again. I also don't doubt for one minute that if she found out you were in her house that she would call the police and have you arrested in a heart beat.

You also need to get your partner to take your side in keeping you, your kids and your home safe. If he won't, move on. Believe me that an arrest record for the "whore" to carry around for the rest of her life and your partner being ditched by you are punishment enough and you walk away having done NOTHING WRONG.

Good luck

Answer 5

The best revenge is to live well.

Avoid the drama, get to the root. She finds your man attractive. You have that in common, so how can you condemn her for having good taste?

The root is your relationship. He violated your trust. If you can forgive him, time and communication will heal, but it will never be the same. Once bitten twice shy.

If this is a back and forth thing between you, or he is just a womanizer, then cut your losses ASAP, get a lawyer, and go on an' get it over with. It sounds harsh, but life is short.
Trust is the core of all relationships, not just pair bonding.

Answer 6

Don't do anything with it right now. Keep it, but I wouldn't use it, because if something happened in her apartment you would be the number one suspect. You should have had her arrested for coming over and attacking you. Be the better person and let it go for now. If she does anything else, then have her arrested. You have a baby to worry about, you don't need to go to jail. One thing she ain't worth a night in jail! She is hurt and angry, because she might felt like she really got screwed. So, have a little sympathy for her, but not enough that it is going to hurt you or your baby. If she needs to be dealt with then do it legally. Hope you can work things out with your husband, and that he never ever does this again. Next time, the woman may pull a FATAL ATTRACTION. So, please be careful, and your husband needs to get down on his knees and thank you for giving him another chance and for having to put up with all of this. Because you sure don't deserve it! God bless.....

Answer 7

When someone cheats they NEVER stop im living proof,i got married in 1989 and he started cheating 6 month later... it's now 18 years later and he has had tons of affairs (he's in the military)
i know our first instinct is to get pissed at the female..but the real guilty one is HIM.... i`m 44 years old and had a huge fight with him last night over some female he works with...he seems to be protecting her... I`m not from the usa im from germany and he knows i have nowhere to go... everyone always tells me you get half of his retirement pay... but i couldnt afford to live on my own..he's been the soul provider this entire time..i been a mom and housewife...so see... everyone has a problem my dear..but dont just blame her it's HIM.... he will not change

Answer 8

Wow. I'm a Scorpio so that is a loaded question. I know I would play out in my mind all the things I could do but in the end what would it solve. I think I would have to do something though. Why not put it in an envelope with a letter saying ... Hi honey, I thought you might need this. Love, ???? and send it to his work. That will make him sweat for an entire day. And you will have done nothing to get yourself into trouble. I know you want him to suffer so go for it. Best of luck to you. Happy healing.

Answer 9

You have a child. Think about her/him. Doing anything as crazy as getting into apartment, with or without a key will only end you up in jail. If your partner is having an affair, or has ended one, deal with him about it~ be truthful to yourself about if you can continue a relationship with such betrayal. YOU should be the one to be in control of acting like an adult. Always think about what the consiquenses will have on your child. (you can always fantacize about doing something vendictive. but actually DOING it will only make things worse.)

Answer 10

There is a question you have to ask yourself...what do you want the end result to be? If it is anything like being in a jail cell or perhaps being sued - then enter the home and do what you want.

It sounds to me that you are letting your emotions get in the way of rational thinking. By taking any action that would be considered unlawful, hurtful or embarrasing to yourself or others is crossing the line from being a hurt individual to a psycho.

Good Luck.

Answer 11

hell no u get in there when u know that she ain't gonna be there and do some crazy ****! don't blatantly trash the place so she knows someones been in there straight away, u will know what to do when your in there just freak the ***** out. i dunno change round all her cupboards in the kitchen and her bedroom. leave it for a while then go back do some more weird stuff really play with her mind! it will be great! oh my i wish i was your friend so i could come with u i know i would more ideas if i was in there!
good luck have fun and remember to wear gloves so when she does get totally paranoid no evidence pointing to u!

edit- u added details she attacked u in front of your children then she defiantly needs sorting out play with her head really screw her over! hahaha! she deserves everything u throw at her and I'm hoping your not letting him off the hook or maybe do just for the time being till u get revenge then u could leave his bags in her house! that would be funny!