can a boy judge whether his girlfriend or wife is a virgin or not after having sex with her?
2006-07-12 01:35:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What the problem whether if your gf or wife is a virgin or not......you fall in love with the person not her p.u.s.s.y.........come on...be realistic.............you see her beauty first not her p.u.s.s.y......Do you ask a girl for love by asking " ARE U A VIRGIN OR NOT" or " ARE U SEEING SOMEONE ELSE "............for me when love is concern questions like this should not arise. U may also have your own black spots too...........Guys try to screw every women he get but wants a virgin as his partner.....ask yourself 1st are u ONE?...............If you are not then don ask this kinda question...........M sorry if i said anything wrong.
2006-07-12 02:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can take a guess as to where she was a virgin prior to her having sex with him. There are ways that indicate if she has had sex or not, but some of those ways are not always accurate. For instance, if her hymen is torn or gone it could mean that she has had sex, but it could also mean that she uses tampons and that broke it. OR if she is active in sports, stretching could break the hymen. Her tightness is not a good indicator of having sex. Some women are naturally tight even though they have had sex for years. His guess is just a guess. It would take a medical exam, but then again, that would not be 100% conclusive. Good Luck
2006-07-12 01:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you have sex with her, she is no longer a virgin. Are you a virgin? Don't apply a double standard to relationships. If you believe in virginity before marriage, you should be practicing that as well and you should be associating with the type of woman who shares this value. Then you don't need to worry about proving anything.
2006-07-12 01:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by just♪wondering 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your hymen was intact before relations you may have experienced
some bleeding during. And it is common for you to be sore afterwards. However many women by their later teens have no hymen at all and that is completely normal too.
Are you talking about him judging you or determining whether or not you were a virgin?
2006-07-12 01:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ahab 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back in the old days, they actually checked by seeing if she bled afterwards--it meant it tore her hymen. But many kinds of exercise can do it, too. If she's ever ridden a horse, for example, you'll never know. But do you really care? The point isn't whether or not she's had sex before, it's whether she's the person you want to spend your life with.
2006-07-12 01:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by cross-stitch kelly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand absolutely everyone who frowns upon being a virgin till after marriage. it truly is a personal determination that i imagine all of us ought to make in some unspecified time sooner or later. i did not wait till marriage, yet my husband is the only guy i have had sex with, and that i show pride contained in the undeniable reality that i'll claim that.
2016-12-01 03:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you can judge the girl if she virgin or not, depend on what her friends background.or who she go out with.the way she talk,, if very vocal it means she had sex experience.now if she quite woman and very respectable it means shes virgin,, what do you think?.
2006-07-12 01:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lyn S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seeing a hymen is the only identifier but i doubt many are checking. it also does not mean you are not a virgin if your hymen is broken for some reason. just be sure to tell the new lover you are and ask him to be gentle,
2006-07-12 01:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not a way to tell if she is a virgin for sure but if the vagina is tight and she experiencing pain is most likely is a virgin
2006-07-12 01:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by bigdaddyleon2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, only if u have a DNA test.
2006-07-12 01:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋