always crowd me im the youngest of five with my own fanily a hubby and two beautiful boys.my two brothers dont work and are always round my house,it cant be fair on my hubby thay are starting to take the piss now,i love my mum dearly but she does have a sence of always being wright,i dont feel like my own person sometimes but need time 4 my own family to,but really dont want to hurt there feelings help??????????????????
2006-07-12 01:33:42 · 12 answers · asked by kiki_cece 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hurt their feelings. Your two brothers are bumming off you and that isn't right. They should have more self respect than that.
2006-07-12 01:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
gotta tell'em how ya feel and if your family is affecting your husband and kids in a annoying and kinda bad way like the bro's with no jobs, u need to tell'em fast before your kids start think,"hey we don't need jobs we'll just hang around our sibs house and rely on them the rest of our lives!" hate to sound harsh but ya gotta get the courage and tell em
2006-07-12 08:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by kellieprocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree wid Melissa that u shud tell ur hubby and then he shud tell ur brothers to just give u some space in ur house if u cannot do that then try and talk to them directly
2006-07-12 08:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the number one reason is you let them crowd you in. You have to take a stand and let them know that you have a family now and it time you can not be there for them you have to be there for the husband and kids
2006-07-12 08:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by bigdaddyleon2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the boys call you to see if they can come to your home before they bardge in on you and your family. have a talk with your Mom about the situation.
2006-07-12 08:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a difficult situation; especially for our relationship with your mother.....your brothers are a different story -they are grown men...try to talk wit hyour mother to get to a mutual understanding...your relationship with your husband is, of course, your number 1 priority....
2006-07-12 08:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband should help you by telling your brothers you need family time.Surely they will listen to him if they choose to ignore you.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-07-12 08:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn lil gurl! what's w/ the english? try this! love a niga! and be welcomed in the brotherhood!
2006-07-12 08:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can still b nice but firm but not 2 firm!
Good luck
2006-07-12 08:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by ashleelover1112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family is SO IMPORTANT talk to your family you know what to say and what not to say tell them how you r feeling after all girl they r family.
2006-07-12 08:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋