1 year ago me and my boyfriend parted ways. he did not tell me the reason for our break up. all of a sudden he came to me 1 day and said "its all over between us". i kept quite for a month. one day i went to him and asked him the reason. he used abusive language with me. just said to get out and never to contact him. even today im waiting for him to tel me the reason. his friends kept misguiding me. sometimes they say he still loves me. somtimes they say he is dating som1 else.i did asked them to not to talk abt him. they say they were telling me abt him generally. our's was a best relationship. even though we were totally different personalities, we always came back to each other after fights. deep inside im waiting for him to come back to me. i want him to come back with deep realisation that wat he did to me was wrong. all my friends told me to forget him, he doesnt deserve me, he wont come back, move on..... but i have hopes. i feel may be some day he wil think abt me and come back
2006-07-12 01:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by angelic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give it up. If he's treating you like that, he has no intentions of coming back. Even if he changes his mind later, how could you respect yourself if you took him back? It sounds like some of his friends are trying to let you down gently, and others are levelling with you. Either way, it's over.
2006-07-12 01:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by cross-stitch kelly 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
from personal experience i know exactly how u are feeling. and i think the main reason u cant move on is because u need closure. he up and left with out a rhyme or reason and that is hard to accept, especially if u didnt see it coming. i had the same thing happen to me. just recently have me and my ex been able to actually talk about it. i still love him and i think in the back of my mind im still hoping for a happy ending but honestly i dont think it will be that way. the issue im struggling with now is if i can be his friend or if i need to totally rid myself of him which is also hard to do since we've been friends since we were 9 and we're 28 now. i know u are going thru a tuff time but remember u come first...u have to do whats best for u. take care.
2006-07-12 08:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by MsNic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could be waiting forever. life is too short to just wait around. join a club or go out with your friends. they are right, move on and enjoy your life. you have to start living again.
i feel most of your problems are low self esteem. if this really is a big problem for you, maybe doing some self esteem classes or seeking some counselling may help you. good luck.
2006-07-12 08:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!! your not abnormal. that why you stilll living with your past, coz it maybe your past is the very unforgettable memories, very happiness moment of your life, something very special.that you can forget even your in your new life,,but if it bad thing happen to you before,, i suggest, forget it, try to do things that keep you busy, be hang on to the person who make you smile.like your friend, someone love,.
2006-07-12 08:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lyn S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he will come back. this is totally not abnormal. when you date someone. you get feelings for them. you ouviously have fave a ton of them for him. we will never know if he comes back. but just remember, your heart still loves him alot. do whats best. and if you really want him. just go up to him and out of the blu kiss him. he'll understand how you still love him. it worked for me. dont be shy. good luck!! :o)
2006-07-12 08:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
holding on to the past is not only painful but a waste of time if u let go of your past and embrace the present the future may make you happier than you actually were in the past!!!
2006-07-12 08:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be the fact that you hate what is going on (past) and its in some weird way a comfort zone becuase you know what to exspect
2006-07-12 08:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by gaurdianangelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. U R abnormal.
2006-07-12 08:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋