..that what I'm gonna do is the right choice? I wanna go abroad with my gf, who I trully love, for a year or something. we didn't get into the uni we wanted to study at (in other city) so the only way of being together is going somewhere quite far away from here. going abroad for job for a year.. or sth like that.. but when I do it.. I'll lose something and it's my mom. there won't be any possibility of coming back (to talk about my mom; my dad is ok with this all). and I'm so afraid that something will go wrong, that I won't spend the rest of my life with my gf and then.. if something goes wrong between us two, then I'll destroy (torture) myself psychically, because I won't have eother my mom nor my gf. and my mom will be like 'I was right, I told you to leave her..etc'. I'm so confused!! why I'm not sure of my decision? I want to do it and I will, but still.. I'm so afraid that something will go wrong.. and if does.. what I'm gonna do to myself..
2006-07-12 01:29:06 · 2 answers · asked by bara_no_seido 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what person who's in love thinks about what will happen if the relationship breaks..? I don't even understand myself... :(
2006-07-12 01:30:24 · update #1
Your Mom sounds hard, but a mother is always a mom and I think in time she will forgive you, your Dad may be able to soften her if need be.What is her objection? Does she not like the GF? Will you be able to support yourself abroad or does Mom want you to go to the universities here? I hope this works out for you. Try listening to your moms objections and see if she may be right. A good mother always has her childs best interests at heart.
2006-07-12 01:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you leave your family to travel abroad then you might lose the chance to see them again. It's a decision you have to make. It sounds like you are desperate to follow your gf wherever she goes. Why don't you just go to the next town down the highway? Your family is the most important thing in your life until you begin a family of your own. Following a gf around isn't a wise choice if you want to keep relationships with your family. If you and your gf love each other, then get married. After you are married you mother may change her mind about you traveling abroad and may stay in contact. It sounds like your mother is just protecting you. You should make your decision based on the importance of family. Good Luck
2006-07-12 08:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋