did you hate being pregnant and handling a newborn did it change your thoughts on motherhood, was it what you thought it would be???
2006-07-12 01:26:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I did not want another one mentally and physically at first. I had two miscarriages after my first one and I was completely fine with it. When I became preg my second time it was horrible and I dont wish to have another and the dr advise me not to have another because of my physical being. I hate the weight that I gained the long nights because I breastfeed just the thoughts wear me down. It was more than what I bargin for. i am done prayerfully with kids I am just going to raise my two a 5 month old and 3 year old.
2006-07-12 04:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by ktilton13 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
i did not care to be pregnant it is very uncomfortable and handling a newborn can be frustrating but it is all worth it and yes it did change the way i thought motherhood was i thought that it was alot easier than it is because watching someone elses children is nothing like having your own but i plan to have another child in a few years when my son is old enough
2006-07-12 01:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 wonderful children. I only hated the last month of pregnancy because I had some type of alergy to the placenta and it made me itch like crazy! Other than that...it was great. Holding a newborn babe in your arms is one of the most precious and amazing things. I was ready to be a mom and it is everything I had hoped it would be and more.
2006-07-12 01:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by zoya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two kids and pregnant again. I love being pg. feeling the baby kick, falling in love with them before they are even born. Being a mother is nothing at all like I thought it would be. It is better than I ever could have imagined.
Kids are a hoot. They make every day interesting. They are amazing and wonderful.
2006-07-12 01:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cried the second time I got pregnant. My first child had colic for the first 6 months. I had just got back down to my regular jean size and had just started to feel good about myself. Then I became pregnant again. I wouldn't change a thing. I have woke up smiling just thinging about my kids for the last 20 years.
2006-07-12 04:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by make the momma crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 21:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had no clue what I was up to, but no, it did not put me off having another. However, I'll tell you this, my second was sooo much harder to manage, that I, and my best friends, often wonder if, had I had her first, I might not have stopped there.
2006-07-12 01:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually you forget everything. Its natures trick to get people to reproduce more than once.
You probably dont even remember writing this question.
And btw I am available if you need help, if you know what i mean!
2006-07-12 01:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been eveything I ever hoped it would be and more. My children are a constant source of joy and wonder.
2006-07-12 01:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by SUzyQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my answer is "yes" if you like sex
2006-07-12 01:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by dor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋