My boyfriend and i split up about a little over 2 years ago. We call to say hello every now & then but i still miss him so much it hurts. i've been out a few times with another since we've split and i always had him on my mind throughout the whole date. I do carry on day to day and he's not all i think bout or revolve my life around but i still am in love with him and wish we were still together. How long will i feel this way, and how long will the pain from us breaking up be in my heart.
2006-07-12 01:06:57 · 20 answers · asked by Sassy_One 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How long will you yearn for your ex? - As long as you wish. As long as you think of him and perhaps obsess a bit about him and not let him and your past relationship go... you could be talking an indefinite period of time. What are his feelings about you? Does he feel the same way... if he does, perhaps you two were meant to be together so I would try to rekindle those old flames. If he doesn't feel the same way and has moved on with his life, there's your answer. By continuing to "yearn" for him you're only hurting yourself. Move on too...
2006-07-12 01:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally i think 2 years is tooo long but there are some things you just can not control and feelings are one of them. You must come to the realization that you two had your time and it is now over. Until you get him completely out your system, you will not be able to be in another relationship which is why when you do date you STILL think of this dude. Finally...you should NOT speak to him at all or you will never be able to heal. Get a grip sweety.
2006-07-12 01:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will take you a while to get over him ecspecially if he was your first love. Go out have fun meet other people. But the yearning really want go completely away until you meet your one true love. There's someone out there for everybody. Don't look to hard because he could be just around the corner.
2006-07-12 01:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by rmjhnh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, stop with the calls. There is no point to them. Secondly, you'll stop yearning when you get wise and realize that you don't need him to live your life. It's up to you to decide whether you want to waste your time clinging to the past that was over yesterday, or more specifically, 2 years ago, and start living wiser and happier in the present.
2006-07-12 01:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, do your self a favor, honey and don't talk with the guy anymore. All you're doing is scratching a scab. You will never heal like that. Put yourself out there more and go out! When you find another man you're interested in, those pains will turn to memories.
2006-07-12 01:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it isn't going to work between the 2 of you, then you have to get over him, don't you!!!! Get out more, read, take a class, volunteer at a hospital, anything to keep your mind occupied. You have to get over him, being away from him 2 years, says he is not coming back. Get out there!!!!
2006-07-12 01:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in order to get over him you have to take that first step and stop calling him, the relationship is over, i would say take things day by day but its been two years that you have been out of this relationship, you keep calling because you want to hold onto him in the hopes that he will come back to you, the sooner you realize that he isn't coming back and stop all lines of communication will you only be able to fully heal from this....
2006-07-12 01:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learnt that the only way to get over someone is in time.
I know it sounds cliche but speaking from my own personal experiences time does heal all wounds.
But sever all contact it hurts more when you stay in contact with that person.
2006-07-12 01:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1ST OF ALL YOU,VE GOT TO REMEMBER AN EX IS AN EX FOR A REASON, BECAUSE IT WASNT WORKING OUT, I DONT KNOW IF HE WAS YOUR 1ST SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP? BUT IF SO, IT CAN TAKE A WHILE TO GET OVER, I STILL THINK ABOUT MY 1ST AND THAT WAS OVER 20 YRS AGO, BUT JUST KEEP GOING OUT HAVING FUN WITH YOUR FRIENDS, DONT GET YOURSELF DOWN ABOUT IT COS THAT COULD HAPPEN IF YOU DONT STOP0 THINKING ABOUT HIM, MAYBE IN TIME, WHO KNOWS, YOU MAY GET BACK TOGETHER, BUT FOR NOW HAVE FUN WITH YOUR FRIENDS, AND MAYBE STOP CALLING EACH OTHER FOR A WHILE MIGHT HELP?
2006-07-12 01:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you either you to the long hard and sometimes scary work to have a good relationship with yourself or you find another person to fill your addiction to relationships.
2006-07-12 01:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by Richard15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋